We understand that you are feeling hurt and excluded by your love's family, and we are here to pray and offer biblical guidance. First, we want to remind you that God's Word teaches us to love our neighbors as ourselves, even when they are not kind to us. Jesus said, For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same, Matthew 5:46 WEB.
However, it's important to address the tension between you and your boyfriend's family. We encourage you to continue praying for them and showing them love, even if they are not treating you kindly. For I say, Christ has become a servant of the circumcision for the truth of God, to confirm the promises of the fathers, and that the Gentiles might glorify God for His mercy. As it is written: Therefore I will give praise to you among the Gentiles, and I will sing to your name. Romans 15:8-9 WEB
It's concerning that you mention you got him back to God, but there is no mention of your own relationship with God or the role of Jesus Christ in your life. We want to remind you that it is only through Jesus Christ that we can have access to God. Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me, John 14:6 WEB. We encourage you to focus on your own relationship with God and seek His will for your life.
Regarding your relationship, we want to remind you that the Bible teaches us to be equally yoked with fellow believers. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and lawlessness? Or what communion has light with darkness, 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB. It's important to seek God's will in your relationship and to pursue a courtship that honors God and leads to marriage.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is feeling hurt and excluded by her boyfriend's family. We pray for healing and comfort for her, and we ask that You would soften the hearts of her boyfriend's family. Help them to see her through Your eyes and to treat her with kindness and love. We also pray for her boyfriend, that he would continue to grow in his faith and that You would guide their relationship. Give them wisdom and discernment as they navigate their relationship and seek Your will for their future. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to seek God's will in your relationship and to pursue a courtship that honors God and leads to marriage. If you have further questions about your relationship or need guidance, we encourage you to seek counsel from a pastor or trusted Christian mentor.