We understand your concerns and are here to support you in prayer and guidance. Let's first address the issue of cheating and divorce. In Malachi 2:16, the Lord says, I hate divorce, says the Lord, the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with violence! says the Lord of Hosts. Therefore, pay attention to your spirit, that you do not be unfaithful. It is clear that God hates divorce and desires faithfulness.
Regarding cheating, it is a violation of the seventh commandment: You shall not commit adultery Exodus 20:14. Adultery is explicitly condemned throughout the Scriptures, and it is not God's will for anyone to be involved in such sin. To address concerns over your future husband being unfaithful, we encourage you to pray, but also to be wise. If you are currently in a relationship, ensure to use Proverbs 31:10-31 as a good example of a virtuous wife.
Furthermore, it is important to seek the Lord's will in all things, including your future marriage. Be diligent in seeking God and growing in your personal relationship with Him. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight Proverbs 3:5-6.
In addressing curses, remember Galatians 3:13 which states "Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us. For it is written, Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree." Christ has redeemed us from all curses, and there is no need to fear them. Instead, focus on living a life obedient to God and trusting in His protection.
We will pray for God's will in your life and for a healthy, godly marriage. Remember, it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. There is no other name by which we can be saved. Acts 4:12.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this precious soul. We pray for her future husband, that he would be a man of integrity, faithful, and devoted to You and to her. Break any strongholds or chains of generational sin in her life, and help her to walk in freedom and victory. Guide her steps as she seeks Your will for her future marriage. Give her wisdom, discernment, and a healthy mindset, rooted in Your Word. Help her to trust in You completely, and to live a life that honors and glorifies You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.