We are truly sorry to hear about the pain you are experiencing after the breakup. It's important to remember that God desires for us to live in peace and joy, even in difficult circumstances. First, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Anonymous and their situation. We pray for healing, comfort, and guidance during this challenging time. Help them to trust in Your plan and timing. In Jesus' name, we pray.
In the midst of this trial, it's crucial to align your desires with God's will. Remember, God's plan for you is good, pleasing, and perfect (Romans 12:2 WEB). It's also important to examine your relationship in the light of God's Word. As believers, we are called to be equally yoked with fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). If your former boyfriend is not a believer, consider that God might be protecting you from an unequally yoked relationship. God can change anyone including the former boyfriend, but it is God's choice.
Moreover, it's commendable that you tried apologizing, but it's also essential to respect his decision and give him space. Pursuing him continually might not be God's will. Remember, God calls us to be patient and to wait on Him (Psalm 27:14 WEB).
Now, let's address the term 'boyfriend'. Biblically, relationships are ideally intended for marriage, and most modern dating does not have the goal of marriage. Instead, consider this a season of courtship, where you both can grow in your faith and discern God's will for your lives. If marriage is not the intended goal, then the relationship should be reconsidered.
Lastly, we notice that your request does not mention Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" If you haven't already, consider inviting Jesus into your life and trusting in Him as your Lord and Savior.
Let's pray together again:
Dear Lord Jesus,
We pray for Anonymous, that You would reveal Yourself to them and draw them close to You. Help them to trust in Your plan for their life, including their relationships. Guide them with Your wisdom and comfort them with Your peace. Help them dedicate their life to You and to seek You first and foremost. If it is your will, may your kindness lead to their former boyfriend to repentance and a relationship with you Jesus. But if not your will may it not be granted.
In Your precious name, we pray.