We understand that you're feeling lost and needing guidance. Firstly, it is important to note that the Holy Scriptures say let us therefore draw near with boldness to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and may find grace for help in time of need. (Hebrew 4:16 WEB)
We are thankful that you have come with your needs, and we want to remind you that God cares for you and your family. First, we want to address the issue of forgiveness. Jesus taught us to pray, Forgive us our debts, as we also forgive our debtors. (Matthew 6:12 WEB). Forgiveness is a crucial part of the believer's life. As you pray, remember that God wants you to forgive others as He forgives you.
Regarding the difficulties you are experiencing as a single mother, we want to encourage you with the words of the Apostle Paul, I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. (Philippians 4:13 WEB). God knows your needs and He cares for you and your children. Trust that He is working everything out for your good, even if it doesn't seem that way right now. And keep in mind the words from Romans 8:28.
We also want to remind you about the importance of praying in Jesus' name. Jesus said, Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. (John 14:13 WEB). If you believe in Jesus Christ, then you are saved and it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved.
In addition, we want to address the issue of 'prayer guilt.' Remember, God is not a God of confusion but of peace. (1 Corinthians 14:33 WEB). He wants you to come to Him with confidence, not guilt. He loves you and wants to bless you. Do not be concerned about others, but only pray for what you need. As you do, trust that God hears and cares for all His children, including you.
Lastly, we pray for your family's peace and reassurance. We ask God to bless you and your family.
Father, we lift up Tysuigate to You, asking that You forgive her sins and help her to forgive others. We pray that You provide for her needs as a mother, that You help her find a job and keep her house. We ask that You bless her family and give them peace. We pray that Tysuigate finds comfort and confidence in You, and that she leaves her guilt at the foot of the cross. We ask all of this in Jesus' name, Amen.