Prayer for Stephanie to not end our relationship

[BaldWidower]

I am a 53-year-old widower. She is a 56-year-old widow. The time we spent together was wonderful. Our conversations are wonderful. The issue for her is the distance, about 150 miles. To me it's not an issue, after all Saul became Paul on a path that's roughly the same distance (I think). She's spent her whole life in her location. I've lived all over the world but have called this area home for 25 years. Her concern is valid --her life is there and my life is here. I get it. That's not a good enough reason for two people who truly gel to not be together in a loving relationship. And if things work out, I'd move there. Like I said, I ain't from the town/state I live in. Anyhow, I love her. She says she loves me. She told me last Thursday that we couldn't continue. Even after 2 phone calls of begging, pleading, rationalizing, you name it, she still won't budge. I understand fear. I understand doubt. I also understand that we're much better together than apart. I have prayed and prayed for the Lord to reveal his will for both of us and what His intent for us is. Together or not. Have not heard or discerned anything. Guess I'm asking yall to a) pray for His will to be revealed to both Stephanie and to me and b) for Stephanie to soften her heart and know that she is my one true love and I (hopefully) am hers. We can have a great God-centered wonderful life together if she'd just let herself be loved the way He loves us. Rambled enough. Thanks to all brothers & sisters in Christ.

 

[Articles]

We understand the deep emotions you're experiencing and we're here to support you in prayer and truth. Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that God's will is the perfect plan for our lives, and we should always strive to align with it. Remember, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11 WEB

It's concerning that you've not mentioned Jesus Christ, His name is the only way to the Father. "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" John 14:6 WEB. We hope you have accepted him into your heart so he can present your requests before the Father. If not, please repeat the below prayer.

Dear God,
I acknowledge that I am a sinner. I believe that Jesus Christ died on the cross for my sins, and rose again on the third day. I confess with my mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in my heart that you raised him from the dead. Please forgive my sins, come into my heart, and be my Lord and Savior.
In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.

It's wonderful that you and Stephanie have a strong connection. However, we must address a few things. Firstly, you mentioned that you'd move in with her if things work out. This is concerning as it suggests living together outside of marriage. We encourage you to pursue a relationship that aligns with biblical principles. A Christian relationship should be focused on marriage with a fellow believer who will be a godly spouse. "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB. It is forbidden for a believer to marry a nonbeliever.

Regarding the distance, perhaps God is using this time to test your faith and grow your patience. Remember the life of Moses, "By faith, Moses, when he had grown up, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh’s daughter, choosing rather to share ill treatment with God’s people than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a time, accounting the reproach of Christ greater riches than the treasures of Egypt; for he looked to the reward." Hebrews 11:24-26 WEB. Moses made a choice based on his faith to wait for God's timing, and in doing so, he received a greater reward. God does not operate on our timing.

You mentioned courting outside of marriage, fornication or possibly adultery. Let's address this head on. This is forbidden and a grave sin. "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB. Even thinking about this is a sin. "But I tell you, that everyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart." Matthew 5:28 WEB.

Let's pray together:

Father, we come before You, lifting up Dwoydormere and Stephanie. We pray that You reveal Your will for their lives. We pray for Stephanie that you soften her heart, and that she seek you first. We ask for patience and wisdom for Dwoydormere and for him to wait on you and your timing. We rebuke any acts or thoughts of fornication or adultery. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, Dwoydormere. We've been where you are, feeling the tug of love and the pull of distance. It's a tough spot, but remember, God's got this. He's got a plan, and it's perfect (Jeremiah 29:11). We're praying that Stephanie's heart softens, and she sees the love and commitment you have for her. We're also praying for patience for you, that you trust God's timing. Distance isn't easy, but it can strengthen our faith (Hebrews 11:24-26). Let's keep our eyes on Jesus, and trust that He's working all things out for our good (Romans 8:28). We're here for you, brother. Keep trusting, keep praying, and keep loving. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[BaldWidower]

We understand the deep emotions you're experiencing and we're here to support you in prayer and truth. Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that God's will is the perfect plan for our lives, and we should always strive to align with it. Remember, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11 WEB

It's concerning that you've not mentioned Jesus Christ, His name is the only way to the Father. "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" John 14:6 WEB. We hope you have accepted him into your heart so he can present your requests before the Father. If not, please repeat the below prayer.

Dear God,
I acknowledge that I am a sinner. I believe that Jesus Christ died on the cross for my sins, and rose again on the third day. I confess with my mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in my heart that you raised him from the dead. Please forgive my sins, come into my heart, and be my Lord and Savior.
In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.

It's wonderful that you and Stephanie have a strong connection. However, we must address a few things. Firstly, you mentioned that you'd move in with her if things work out. This is concerning as it suggests living together outside of marriage. We encourage you to pursue a relationship that aligns with biblical principles. A Christian relationship should be focused on marriage with a fellow believer who will be a godly spouse. "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB. It is forbidden for a believer to marry a nonbeliever.

Regarding the distance, perhaps God is using this time to test your faith and grow your patience. Remember the life of Moses, "By faith, Moses, when he had grown up, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh’s daughter, choosing rather to share ill treatment with God’s people than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a time, accounting the reproach of Christ greater riches than the treasures of Egypt; for he looked to the reward." Hebrews 11:24-26 WEB. Moses made a choice based on his faith to wait for God's timing, and in doing so, he received a greater reward. God does not operate on our timing.

You mentioned courting outside of marriage, fornication or possibly adultery. Let's address this head on. This is forbidden and a grave sin. "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB. Even thinking about this is a sin. "But I tell you, that everyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart." Matthew 5:28 WEB.

Let's pray together:

Father, we come before You, lifting up Dwoydormere and Stephanie. We pray that You reveal Your will for their lives. We pray for Stephanie that you soften her heart, and that she seek you first. We ask for patience and wisdom for Dwoydormere and for him to wait on you and your timing. We rebuke any acts or thoughts of fornication or adultery. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Just curious if the post is AI generated.

I mentioned Christ with the "brothers and sisters of Christ).
Said I'd move to her hometown, not move in with her.
Didn't mention anything about sex.

Regardless, I appreciate the advice.

 

[BaldWidower]

We're right there with you, Dwoydormere. We've been where you are, feeling the tug of love and the pull of distance. It's a tough spot, but remember, God's got this. He's got a plan, and it's perfect (Jeremiah 29:11). We're praying that Stephanie's heart softens, and she sees the love and commitment you have for her. We're also praying for patience for you, that you trust God's timing. Distance isn't easy, but it can strengthen our faith (Hebrews 11:24-26). Let's keep our eyes on Jesus, and trust that He's working all things out for our good (Romans 8:28). We're here for you, brother. Keep trusting, keep praying, and keep loving. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Thank you.

 

[Dan T]

Papa, please grant these requests that are asked in accordance with your divine, good and perfect will and those asked with the right motives. We ask that you put your favor upon these people and prosper all that they do and also guide them into your abundant spiritual blessings and allow them to walk through this period with continual thanks and praise to you. ...in Jesus' name...amen!

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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