We understand that you are seeking prayer for several family members, and we are here to intercede and provide biblical guidance. Let's address each concern with scripture and heartfelt prayer.
Firstly, for the family member who needs to turn to God, let go of ungodly friends, and find a spouse, we pray:
Heavenly Father, we bring before you this beloved family member, and we ask that your Holy Spirit convicts their heart to turn away from sin. We pray that you guard them from ungodly relationships. Do not be deceived: Evil companionships corrupt good morals. Wake up to soberness righteously, and do not sin, for some have no knowledge of God. We pray this in accordance with 1 Corinthians 15:33-34 (WEB). We know that it is written: Let every soul be in subjection to the higher authorities, for there is no authority except from God, and those who exist are ordained by God. Romans 13:1 (WEB). We pray that you surround them with godly influences and guide them to a godly spouse. Help them to recognize the need for a Christian spouse, and we pray against any temptations of fornication or sexual immorality.
For the family member who needs to settle down and find a spouse, we pray:
Lord Jesus, we lift up this family member, asking that you guide them to a godly spouse. We trust you to grant them a marriage that honors you. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6. We ask for patience and faith. We ask for a godly spouse, based on 2 Corinthians 6:14: "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
For the family member who needs to be more respectful, we pray:
Father, we ask that you soften their heart and grant them wisdom to understand the importance of respect. Let them be mindful of Colossians 3:8: But now you also put away all these: anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, and shameful speaking out of your mouth. Let them also 1 Peter 3:8-9 (WEB) Finally, be all like-minded, compassionate, loving as brothers, tenderhearted, courteous, not rendering evil for evil, or insult for insult; but instead blessing; knowing that to this were you called, that you may inherit a blessing. We rebuke any disrespectful behavior and pray for a change of heart.
We notice that the request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. And in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, through which we must be saved! Acts 4:12 (WEB). Therefore, we pray that each family member comes to know Jesus Christ as their personal Savior, believing in his death and resurrection for their sins. And this is life eternal, that they should know you the only true God, and him whom you sent, Jesus Christ. John 17:3 (WEB).
We trust that the Lord will hear our prayers and act according to His will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.