Prayer for second chance with my ex

Anonymous · Sep 7, 2024

She was a great person, but my anxiousness of recent events ruined it. We both really loved each other, believed in God and were each others safe space I really believe that there’s differences between whether God will restore one or not. If it’s toxic and unsafe for me in the future. I don’t think he would do it. But never was it toxic, rather it was beneficial and full of love and support, we went through a lot together, such as deaths, chronic illness, my surgery, family conflict of decisions but things just went downhill because I couldn’t handle recent events any longer. I constantly pray for her realization, understanding, clarity, wisdom, a softening of her heart, reigniting of love, and for God to motivate and show her that a second chance is worth giving and for God to touch her heart and mind. So far, I’ve been improving myself, but it’s hard because I lost someone I love wholeheartedly, I don’t have a great relationship with anyone. Never was outgoing, and she was the only one I felt comfortable to with. Furthermore, the more difficult it is, because I gave up life changing choices, and decisions for this relationship. Choices that made people close with me question me such as my friends and even family. It was choices I’d really make, and I just want to make things right with her. I’ve been praying for 6 months, pairing prayer with verses, and some fasting too. I believe verses are powerful because Gods will are found in Gods word. Just want to make this a testimony of his goodness. Because he was able to restore a relationship my parents had, which seemed impossible. I’m sure he can also do this.

Articles · Sep 7, 2024

We understand your heartache and your desire for reconciliation with your ex. It's clear that you both shared a deep love and a strong faith in God. We commend you for turning to prayer and God's Word during this difficult time. Let's remember, "Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you." (Matthew 7:7, WEB)

However, we must also consider that God's will may not always align with our desires. While your relationship was filled with love and support, it's crucial to reflect on why it went downhill. Sometimes, God permetts us to go through these experiences to strengthen our faith and grow us personally.

Let's pray together:

*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up our brother in Christ who is hurting. Lord, he seeks Your will and desires reconciliation with his former partner. We ask that You soften her heart, grant her wisdom, clarity, and understanding. If it is Your will, Lord, we pray that You reignite the love between them and motivate her to give this relationship a second chance. However, Lord, if this is not Your plan, we ask that You grant our brother peace, healing, and the strength to move forward. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

As you continue to pray and wait, remember to trust in God's timing and plan. "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways," declares the LORD. "For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts." (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB)

We appreciate your dedication to prayer and fasting. Keep holding onto God's promises. But also remember that God wants the best for you, and that might not always look like what you expect. Be open to His leading, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).

Lastly, we want to gently remind you that in your prayers, it's essential to acknowledge the power of Jesus' name. As Jesus Himself said, "Most certainly, I tell you, he who believes in me, the works that I do, he will do also; and he will do greater works than these, because I am going to my Father. Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son." (John 14:12-13, WEB)

hostadmin · Sep 7, 2024

We've been thinking about you and your journey, and we want you to know that we're right here with you in spirit. It's clear that you both shared something special, and it's understandable that you're hoping for a second chance. We've been praying for you, asking God to soften her heart, to grant her understanding and wisdom, and to reignite the love you both once shared.

We've also been reflecting on the power of God's Word. In Jeremiah 29:11, it says, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." We believe that God has a plan for you, and we trust that He will reveal it in His perfect timing.

We've been praying for you, that God would grant you peace and healing, and that He would guide your steps. We've also been believing for a breakthrough in your situation, trusting that God can do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20).

We're here for you, and we'll continue to lift you up in prayer. Remember, God is always with you, and He loves you more than you can imagine. Keep trusting in Him, and keep seeking His face. We believe that He will make a way where there seems to be no way.

ThankfulBC · Sep 7, 2024

Praying over your relationship, praying for healing and restoration, in Jesus name. Amen

The Encourager · Sep 7, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

hostadmin · Sep 13, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.

Arike · Sep 13, 2024

Anonymous said:
She was a great person, but my anxiousness of recent events ruined it. We both really loved each other, believed in God and were each others safe space I really believe that there’s differences between whether God will restore one or not. If it’s toxic and unsafe for me in the future. I don’t think he would do it. But never was it toxic, rather it was beneficial and full of love and support, we went through a lot together, such as deaths, chronic illness, my surgery, family conflict of decisions but things just went downhill because I couldn’t handle recent events any longer. I constantly pray for her realization, understanding, clarity, wisdom, a softening of her heart, reigniting of love, and for God to motivate and show her that a second chance is worth giving and for God to touch her heart and mind. So far, I’ve been improving myself, but it’s hard because I lost someone I love wholeheartedly, I don’t have a great relationship with anyone. Never was outgoing, and she was the only one I felt comfortable to with. Furthermore, the more difficult it is, because I gave up life changing choices, and decisions for this relationship. Choices that made people close with me question me such as my friends and even family. It was choices I’d really make, and I just want to make things right with her. I’ve been praying for 6 months, pairing prayer with verses, and some fasting too. I believe verses are powerful because Gods will are found in Gods word. Just want to make this a testimony of his goodness. Because he was able to restore a relationship my parents had, which seemed impossible. I’m sure he can also do this.

We pray for Gods perfect will concerning your marriage. Nothing is impossible for Him, just keep praying and trusting that He will make all things perfect in His time. Also don’t forget to deal with whatever went wrong in the place of prayer, God may be working on that for both of you so that you become stronger. We pray for restoration and forgiveness in Jesus name, amen