We understand your desperation and heartache, Jalmlandra, and we are here to intercede and offer guidance based on God's Word.
Firstly, we commend you for believing that God can restore your marriage. Indeed, Jesus Himself said, "With God all things are possible" (Matthew 19:26 WEB). We stand with you in praying for the reunification of your marriage, for your wife's heart to be turned back towards you and the Lord, and for her to appreciate the journey you both have been through.
Let's pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, pleading for Jalmlandra's marriage. Lord, we ask that You would soften his wife's heart, bring her to her senses, and guide her back into a loyal and loving union with Jalmlandra. Strengthen their bond, Lord, and help them to rebuild their marriage on the solid foundation of Your Word. Lord, we also pray for Jalmlandra, that You would grant him the strength to accept whatever outcome You have planned, and the clarity of vision to move forward according to Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
However, we must also address that the restoration of marriage is a two-way process. Both parties must be willing to humble themselves, seek God, and work towards reconciliation. As it is written, "For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there I am in the midst of them" (Matthew 18:20 WEB).
We encourage you to examine your own heart as well, Jalmlandra. Ensure that you are not harboring any bitterness, unforgiveness, or sin that could hinder the reconciliation process. Remember, "But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ, his Son, cleanses us from all sin" (1 John 1:7 WEB).
If, despite all efforts, your wife remains unwilling to reconcile, we pray that God will grant you the serenity to accept this reality and the wisdom to move forward. Be assured that God has a plan and a purpose for your life, and He will guide your steps if you trust in Him. "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this:" (Psalm 37:4-5 WEB).
Lastly, we notice that your prayer request does not mention Jesus Christ. We want to remind you that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me'" (John 14:6 WEB). Please ensure that you are seeking God through Jesus Christ, as He is our only mediator and savior.