Mailxian
Disciple of Prayer
My financee and I got into a weird argument out of nowhere one day. It wasn’t even an argument and it was all really confusing. We live in two different states. He has kids and I have 1. They’ve known me as “mom” and my child knows him as “dad and my siblings.” Both of our exes are no longer in either of our children’s lives and the children have only known each other to be in the other’s lives.He started pulling away and then one day said he needed healthy space which I understood. All of a sudden he was adamant that he couldn’t do this and he said everything changed from that day. (Again, it wasn’t even an argument it was a misunderstanding he and I eventually worked through and decided to move forward and start to heal from). I tried to understand because this isn’t like him. In all the years I’ve known him and been with him our communication has been incredible and we’ve always worked together through everything. Since his healthy space, he hasn’t communicated with my child which is hard as they’ve communicated everyday for years. We started working out the details of sending everything back to him and the kids that was needed and he said he’d let me know. Tonight I find out he completely blocked me from everything. We had agreed to talk to my child together to break the news, but he just abandoned us. I’m confused and hurt and lost and angry and I’m begging God to restore this. This isn’t like his behavior at all and Im at a loss, my child is saying their feelings are hurt because dad has ignored them. I came out of a rough and hard marriage before I entered this relationship and I was in the safest, most loving, godly relationship I’d ever seen. This is crushing me and I’m lost.
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