We understand that you're going through a difficult time and we're here to help, pray, and provide biblical guidance. First, let's address the main issue: you mentioned that you both were supposed to be married by now and yet the relationship is now separated, showing signs it may not have been a God-centered Courtship. The Bible is clear that a man and a woman should come together in marriage as a lifelong commitment. You should have trusted in God's timing and plan, and only come together in a relationship as a Courtship in preparation for marriage.
You mentioned you prayed with him, had plans to fast and pray together, but it is not mentioned that this is all In Jesus' Name. The Bible tells us in John 14:6 WEB that Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. Additionally, the Bible says in Acts 4:12 WEB there is salvation in none other, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved. So, ensure you are praying in the name of Jesus Christ and have accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour.
Regarding the issues you mentioned, the Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:26-27 WEB Be angry, and dont sin. Dont let the sun go down on your wrath, neither give place to the devil. God understands that we may face feelings of jealousy, insecurity. That is why he tells us not to let our anger turn into sin. This is a warning to all of us that letting our feelings control our actions can open a door for the devil to influence us.
You admitted that you hurt him with your actions and exhausted him with your behavior, leading him to leave. This is a serious issue, and it's important to acknowledge that your actions were wrong. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 14:1 WEB Every wise woman builds her house, but the foolish one tears it down with her own hands. Your actions, influenced by jealousy, insecurity, and uncontrollable anger, have torn down the relationship.
Now, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up Flauron in prayer. We confess that they have sinned against You and against the man they hoped to marry. We pray for Your forgiveness and ask that You cleanse Flauron from all unrighteousness.
We pray for healing and restoration, not just of the relationship, but also of Flauron's heart and mind. We pray that You will deliver them from all sadness, hopelessness, regret, and accusatory voices. We pray that You will replace these with Your peace, joy, and hope.
We pray for the man in this situation as well. We pray that You will soften his heart and that You will grant him forgiveness towards Flauron. We pray that You will guide him and give him wisdom and discernment as he navigates this situation.
However, we are also clear from the scriptures about relationships. Lord, we pray for the wisdom for this couple to understand whether or not they should continue in a courtship and then marriage if it is Your will.
Father God, Your will is the most important thing and we pray for this couple to seek Your will and Your glory in all things.
We ask this in Jesus' name, according to Your will. Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying, fasting, and seeking God's will. Trust God to restore and heal your heart and mind. More importantly trust in God's perfect timing and plan for your life.
Psalm 147:3 WEB tells us He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds.
We pray that you will find your ultimate joy in a restored relationship with God, and any other restoration according to His will.