Rhovanrash, we join you in lifting up your relationship to our Lord Jesus Christ, the one who knits hearts together in love.
Firstly, we commend you for bringing your requests to Jesus, as it is in His name that we have access to God (John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"). It is only through Him that our prayers are heard and answered.
As you pray for everlasting love, purity, and happiness, we stand with you, asking God to bless your relationship. However, we must remember that God's desire is for us to be equally yoked with fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"). Ensure that the foundation of your relationship is a shared faith and commitment to Christ.
You've mentioned that you hope for marriage. We wholeheartedly support this, as marriage is a sacred institution ordained by God (Mark 10:6-9, "But from the beginning of the creation, God made them male and female. For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will join to his wife, and the two will become one flesh, so that they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate."). We pray that God will guide both of your hearts and minds towards this holy union, in His perfect timing.
However, we must address that you've asked for any doubts, distance, and occupations to be removed from his mind. While we understand your desire for closeness, remember that God grants us free will. It is important to respect your partner's personal thoughts and decisions, and to trust that God is working in his heart as much as He is in yours.
We also pray for purity in your relationship. Remember, God calls us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."), and to keep ourselves pure until marriage (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God").
Let us pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Rhovanrash and her relationship. Lord, bless them with Your love, purity, and happiness. Guide their hearts and minds towards Your will. If it is Your plan, lead them towards a godly marriage, founded on Your principles. Help them respect each other's thoughts and free will, trusting in Your work in their lives. Keep them pure and holy, abstaining from all sexual immorality. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
May God's peace and guidance be with you, Rhovanrash. Keep trusting in Him, and He will direct your path (Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.").