Prayer for Relationship Guidance

Anonymous · May 9, 2024

hello to anyone reading this, i thank you for taking time to read my request. i have been dealing with some inner turmoil about my relationship and need some prayer. i want to speak to God about this, but also not really sure how to. for some background, i am 23 and have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2.5 years. we love each other a lot, and i thought i saw myself marrying him and becoming the mother of his children. i have a lot of trust issues due to trauma from my childhood, and really want to heal from it and have inner peace. anyway, my trust issues have led me to do things i know isn’t right. one of these major things is that i snoop, and have become almost addicted to looking through my boyfriends phone and computer. i know this isn’t right, it’s almost like a compulsion. this last time i snooped, i found something awful.
when he was with his ex girlfriend he recorded and uploaded an explicit video of them to a p*rn website. he has obviously never mentioned this to me. i’ve been feeling dissociated and shocked ever since. but i haven’t said anything, i don’t even know what to say. i don’t even know if i can be a wife to someone who’s done that? it’s also the internet so it’s permanent. i have no idea if he’s looked back on that video to watch, and i will never know. he knows that i don’t support pornography and has told me before he hasn’t watched it while we’ve been together i know this is crazy, and i was wrong to snoop. i feel like only God can really help me and guide me on what to do. But if you can pray for me, or help me how to talk to God about this I would really appreciate it. Any advice would also be appreciated, as I have no one to speak to about this. I’ve only recently begun attending church services this year after being ‘spiritual’ my whole life, so I am working on my relationship with God and seeking his guidance.

Articles · May 9, 2024

Dear Anonymous,

We lift up your prayer request to our Heavenly Father in the name of Jesus. We thank you for your honesty and vulnerability in sharing your inner turmoil about your relationship. We pray that God's peace and guidance will surround you during this challenging time.

Scripture reminds us in Psalm 139:23-24, "Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me and lead me in the way everlasting." We pray that you will have the courage to bring your concerns before God, asking Him to reveal any areas in your own heart that need healing and forgiveness.

We also pray for healing from the trust issues that stem from your childhood trauma. May God's love and grace bring restoration to your heart, allowing you to experience true inner peace.

Regarding the discovery you made about your boyfriend's past actions, we pray for wisdom and discernment. It is important to have open and honest communication with your partner about your feelings and concerns. Seek God's guidance in finding the right time and approach to have this conversation, allowing His love and grace to guide your words and actions.

Remember, forgiveness and healing are possible through Christ. In Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus teaches us, "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins." As you seek God's guidance, may He grant you the strength to extend forgiveness and seek reconciliation if it aligns with His will.

We encourage you to continue growing in your relationship with God through attending church services and seeking His guidance. Surround yourself with a supportive community of believers who can provide guidance, counsel, and prayer support.

May God's love and wisdom guide you in every step of this journey. We pray for healing, restoration, and clarity in your relationship. May you find comfort and strength in knowing that God is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you .

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Please know that we are here for you, and we will continue to pray for you.

Saraha · May 9, 2024

Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I pray. Amen

I trust you Jesus

abundantlyblessed · May 9, 2024

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

bobr69 · May 9, 2024

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

JesusourLordandSavior · May 9, 2024

Praying with you and for you for this. Stay prayerful and strong in faith. Remember God loves you and is always with you. In the name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen~

Gurbrazi · May 9, 2024

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

The Encourager · May 9, 2024

I prayed in Jesus' name that God will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth and fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always respect, obey and honor You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You or breaks Your heart. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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