We understand that you're seeking guidance and prayer for your relationship and financial situation, and we're here to support you in prayer and provide biblical encouragement.
Firstly, we commend you for wanting to leave your relationship in God's hands. It's crucial to remember that God's will is always the best for us. We must test every relationship to see that it aligns with biblical principles. If the relationship is not aligned with godly principles, we can pray that the Lord will either remove you from that situation, or give you wisdom and strength to make the right decision. If you are living together or are physically intimate, the Bible teaches this is fornication and sinful. The scriptures command us to flee fornication rather than making an excuse for it. This is the most important and first thing to address in any relationship. In 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB it says, Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.
Regarding your happiness, remember that true joy and happiness come from the Lord (Psalm 16:11 WEB).
You have the right priorities in considering self-love. In Mark 12:31 WEB, Jesus said, The second is like this, You shall love your neighbor as yourself. There is no other commandment greater than these.
For your financial situation, remember that God wants us to be wise stewards of our resources. In Proverbs 21:20 WEB it says, There is precious treasure and oil in the dwelling of the wise; but a foolish man swallows it up.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our sister/brother in Christ. Lord, we pray for Your will to be done in her/his relationship. If this relationship is not aligned with Your principles, we pray that You give her/him the wisdom and strength to make the right decisions. We also pray for her/his financial situation, that You would guide her/him in managing her/his resources wisely, and provide opportunities for increase. Help her/him to lean on You and not on her/his own understanding. We trust in Your promises and know that You have a plan to give her/him a hope and a future.
In Jesus' name, we pray, Amen.
Continue to put your trust in the Lord, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). Remember, it is only through Jesus that we can approach God. In John 14:6 WEB Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. Make sure to test every thought and spirit to see that it is of God by comparing it with scripture.