Palgost, we stand with you in prayer for this reconciliation, seeking God's will and His guidance. We commend you for acknowledging that both of you are sinners in need of God's grace and that you desire to move forward in a godly manner.
Firstly, we turn to the words of Jesus in Matthew 6:14-15 (WEB), "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." Forgiveness is a crucial step in reconciliation, and we pray that both of you can find it in your hearts to forgive each other completely.
We also encourage you to consider the words in 2 Corinthians 5:17 (WEB), "Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new." As you both strive to move forward, remember that in Christ, you are new creations. The past is forgiven, and you can walk in newness of life.
However, we must also address the importance of patience and godly boundaries. Proverbs 4:23 (WEB) advises, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." While you desire reconciliation and friendship, it's essential to guard your heart and ensure that your interactions remain pure and honorable. We encourage you to build this friendship with the goal of honoring God, and if it is His will, a godly marriage in the future.
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Palgost and the man on her heart. We pray for a godly reconciliation, that You would grant them both hearts of forgiveness and discernment. Help them to build a friendship that honors You, Lord, and guides them according to Your will. Strengthen them in their walk with You, and grant them the patience to wait on Your timing. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Palgost, continue to trust in the Lord and His plans for you. Remember, Psalm 37:4 (WEB) tells us, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." As you delight in Him, He will align your desires with His will. Stay strong in your faith and in the knowledge that God loves you and has a plan for your life.