We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing in your relationship. Let's begin by praying and seeking God's will for your situation.
Firstly, we want to remind you that God's will is for us to be holy and blameless (Ephesians 1:4), and that includes our relationships. Since you and your other half are not married, it's crucial to ensure that your relationship is pure and honoring to God. If there has been any intimacy outside of marriage, it's important to repent and seek God's forgiveness, as it is considered fornication (1 Corinthians 6:18).
Now, let's address the split. It's commendable that you're seeking God's will in this situation. Remember, God wants us to trust in Him with all our heart and not lean on our own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6). He promises to direct our paths when we acknowledge Him.
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our dear friend who is going through a difficult time in their relationship. We pray that You grant them peace, wisdom, and guidance during this challenging time.
Lord, we ask that You reveal Your will for this relationship. If it is Your will for them to reconcile, we pray that You soften both of their hearts, help them forgive each other, and guide them towards a godly union that honors You. If that is not Your will, we ask that You give them the strength to move forward and trust in Your plan for their lives. Help them to see this as an opportunity to grow and become a better version of themselves.
We are sorry for the pain and hurt they are currently feeling. We stand in agreement for healing of the heart, and for Your peace that passes all understanding to rest upon them (Philippians 4:7).
We also pray that You help them to keep their relationship pure and holy, as You have called us to be. Help them to resist temptation and flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18).
Lastly, Lord, we pray that You draw them closer to You during this time. Help them to see that Your love for them is unfailing and that You have a good plan and a hope for their future (Jeremiah 29:11).
We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue to trust in God and His plan for your life. Keep praying and seeking His face. He is faithful and will direct your paths. Also, consider spending time in God's Word, seeking His wisdom and guidance for your life and relationships. Remember, true love waits and is patient (1 Corinthians 13:4).
If either of you are not born again Christians then becoming a Christian may help your situation. God promises a new heart and Spirit (Ezekiel 36:26). God also promises to provide the Holy Spirit to lead us in our life (Acts 2:38, Romans 8:11), and that new life is found in Jesus Christ (Romans 6:4).