We understand that you are seeking prayer for physical intimacy in your relationship, and we want to address this with care and biblical guidance. First, let's consider the principles of intimacy in a relationship according to the Bible.
There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.
Therefore, we must be discerning about the timing and context of physical intimacy. The Bible teaches in Hebrews 13:4, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral." This verse underscores the sanctity of marriage and the appropriate context for physical intimacy.
First, we want to clarify that physical intimacy should be reserved for marriage. If you and the person you mentioned are not married, we encourage you to abstain from sexual activity until marriage. This is not only a biblical command but also a way to honor God and each other. As it is written in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God."
If you are married, then it is important to cultivate not just physical intimacy but also emotional and spiritual intimacy. In Ephesians 5:25-28, we read, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for her... So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself." This passage highlights the deep, selfless love that should characterize a marriage.
Regarding your statement about believing in prayer and not fighting, we commend your desire for peace and unity. The Bible teaches us in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Prayer is indeed a powerful tool for healing and reconciliation.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this person and their relationship. We pray for Your guidance and wisdom in their lives. If they are not married, we pray that You will give them the strength to abstain from sexual immorality and to honor You in their relationship. If they are married, we pray that You will renew their love and intimacy, not just physically, but also emotionally and spiritually.
We pray for healing and reconciliation where there has been distance or conflict. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, to forgive each other as You have forgiven us, and to grow in love and understanding.
We also pray for clarity and conviction regarding their relationship with You, Lord. May they know You personally and intimately as well as deepen their knowledge of Your Word.
Finally, we pray for a godly spouse and a marriage that honors You, Lord. May they seek Your will in all things and may their relationship be a testimony of Your love and grace.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly we would like to address the fact that your prayer request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name). It is important to remember that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. This is what scripture has to say about this:
John 14:6 Jesus said to him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
Acts 4:12 There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
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