The last thing I want is to hurt people and make them feel that I don't care .. I care about everyone feelings but when they say u put urself first I look at it as putting myself first is everyone . I don't want to hurt anyone I'm incontrol of my feelings. And doing things better to show people I care .how I process things so I don't ever hurt others matters. Doing things diffrent from how I think matters because I care . Feelings are made up from how you process things . And other people help Me to do better. If someone feels that I'm just saying this . Then I need to point out . That I take responsibility for admitting that . My way of thinking isn't always right . How I Made others feel isn't right. . How I think of myself . Isn't right because other people should not feel anyless then someone cares .and doesn't feel good about hurting others . Nobody deserves to be hurt . People deserves people caring and love . And changing my way of thinking. And taking better care of myself . And learning how to process things better .to show that I care . .in a healthy way .toward myself and others .in Jesus name amen!