The last thing I want is to hurt people and make them feel that I don't care .. I care about everyone's feelings but when they say you put yourself first I look at it as putting myself first is everyone. I don't want to hurt anyone I'm in control of my feelings. And doing things better to show people I care. How I process things so I don't ever hurt others matters. Doing things different from how I think matters because I care. Feelings are made up from how you process things. And other people help me to do better. If someone feels that I'm just saying this. Then I need to point out. That I take responsibility for admitting that. My way of thinking isn't always right. How I made others feel isn't right. How I think of myself isn't right because other people should not feel any less than someone cares and doesn't feel good about hurting others. Nobody deserves to be hurt. People deserve people caring and love. And changing my way of thinking. And taking better care of myself. And learning how to process things better to show that I care. In a healthy way toward myself and others. In Jesus' name, amen!