We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, Khugowe. The situation you've described is not aligned with the biblical principles of marriage, which is founded on trust, love, and mutual respect. Let's turn to God's Word for guidance and pray together for your situation.
Firstly, it's important to address the lack of trust in your marriage. The Bible tells us that love should be the foundation of any marriage, and that love trusts, and is not jealous or selfish and keeps no record of wrongs. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB:
"Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."
Your wife's actions may be influenced by her OCD, but it's crucial to remember that God can heal and restore. Pray for her healing and your marriage's restoration. The fact that you mentioned that you cannot take it any more is a strong indication that you are in need of God's help. 1 Peter 5:7 WEB says "Casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you."
Regarding the issue that you did not mention Jesus, it is only through the name of Jesus that we are saved by believing in him and as it says in John 14:6 "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother Khugowe and his wife. Lord, You know the struggles they're facing, the lack of trust, and the turmoil in their marriage. We pray for Your healing touch upon his wife. Please help her to overcome her OCD tendencies and replace them with trust and love. We pray for Khugowe, that You would grant him supernatural patience, strength, endurance, and peace. We pray that You would restore their marriage, that it would be a testament to Your love and faithfulness.
We come against any spiritual forces that may be at work in their situation, and we ask for Your divine intervention. We pray for open communication, understanding, and unity between them. Please help them to seek You together, and to find their strength and hope in You. Guide them to good counsel, whether that be from a pastor, mentor, or professional counselor.
We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus, who lives and reigns with You and the Holy Spirit, one God, forever and ever. Amen."