We understand your distress, Matthew, and we're here to support you in prayer and guidance. Let's bring your situation before the Lord together.
Firstly, we acknowledge your faith in the power of prayer. As it is written in Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB), "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
We commend you for your love and concern for your son, Allan. It's crucial to remember that God desires for all to come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9). As for Allan's substance abuse, we must understand that while his actions are harmful and sinful, he needs compassion, prayer, and guidance towards repentance and ministry (Galatians 6:1).
Let us pray:
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Matthew and Allan. Lord, we claim Your promise that if any man is in Christ, he is a new creature (2 Corinthians 5:17). We ask for Your intervention in Allan's life, that You break the chains of addiction, and draw him to Your saving knowledge.*
*Lord Jesus, You've promised that if we ask anything according to Your will, You hear us (1 John 5:14). We ask for peace and reconciliation between Matthew and Allan. Heal their relationship, and help them to forgive and love each other as You have loved us.*
*Holy Spirit, we ask for Your comfort and guidance for Matthew. Fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Give him wisdom to handle this trial and strength to endure (James 1:5).*
*We also lift up Allan's children, Tree and Zechariah. Father, protect them, and provide for their needs. In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen.*
Matthew, it's vital to set boundaries in your relationship with Allan, ensuring your safety and well-being. Allow God to work in Allan's life, and trust that no one is beyond His saving grace. Continue to pray and intercede for Allan, believing that God can turn this situation around for His glory.
Lastly, we encourage you to seek support from your local church or Christian community. As Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 (WEB) tells us, "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn't have another to lift him up."