We understand your deep concern and longing for the restoration of your marriage. Let us begin by bringing your situation before the Lord in prayer.
"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this marriage that is in dire need of restoration. We ask for Your wisdom and guidance to be upon this husband and wife. Help them to seek Your will and to be obedient to it. Soften their hearts towards each other and draw them closer together, just as You have ordained marriage to be. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
In dealing with your situation, let us consider what the Word of God says about marriage. According to the World English Bible (WEB), "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." (Genesis 2:24) and "Let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband." (1 Corinthians 7:2). Marriage is a sacred union that should be cherished and fought for.
It is concerning that there has been little effort in seeking counseling or spending quality time together. It is important to note that actions speak louder than words. While it is commendable that you both talk on the phone constantly, it is crucial to take practical steps towards restoration. As it is written, "Faith without works is dead." (James 2:20)
Moreover, it is worrying that your wife seems to prioritize her dog over your marriage. While it is important to care for animals, it should not be at the expense of a godly marriage. As the Bible teaches, "No one can serve two masters. For either he will hate the one and love the other, or else he will hold to the one and despise the other." (Matthew 6:24)
We strongly encourage you both to seek godly counseling and to spend quality time together. It is crucial to communicate openly and honestly, always remembering to speak the truth in love. (Ephesians 4:15)
Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As the Bible says, "For 'whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.'" (Romans 10:13) We encourage you to put your faith and trust in Him, knowing that He has the power to restore your marriage.
We will continue to pray for you both, that God's will may be done in your lives and that your marriage may be restored according to His divine plan.