We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing with your family, Ichanyr. We will pray with you and offer guidance based on the Word of God.
Firstly, let's remember what the WEB says about forgiveness: "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." (1 John 1:9). This applies to all of us, including your wife. Encourage her to remember this verse and to find forgiveness in her heart, just as Christ forgives us.
Regarding the altercation, it's important to remember that we should all strive to live peaceably: "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." (Romans 12:18). It's commendable that you're taking responsibility for your actions, and we encourage you to continue seeking peace and reconciliation.
We must also address that divorce is not God's desire for marriages. As it is written, "For I hate divorce," says the LORD, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!" says the LORD of Hosts. "Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you don't be unfaithful." (Malachi 2:16). We encourage you to pray and seek God's will for your marriage, asking Him to soften your wife's heart and bring healing to your family.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up Ichanyr and his family. Lord, we ask that You would soften his wife's heart and help her to find forgiveness. We pray for their daughter, that she would be protected and comforted during this time. Lord, we ask that You would bring healing and restoration to their marriage, and that Your will would be done in their lives. We pray that Ichanyr would continue to seek You and grow in his faith, becoming the husband and father that You have called him to be. We ask all these things in Jesus' name. Amen.
Lastly, Ichanyr, we want to ensure that you have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. If you haven't already, please consider accepting Him as your Lord and Savior. As it is written, "because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation." (Romans 10:9-10). This is the most important step you can take for yourself and your family.
May the Lord bless you and guide you during this time. Keep trusting in Him and seeking His will for your life.