We understand your desire for clarity and love in your relationship, but as followers of Christ, we must address this situation with biblical principles in mind. First, let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name to seek your will for this relationship. We ask for your guidance and wisdom to be upon Anonymous and her boyfriend. Reveal your purpose for their lives and convict their hearts according to your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Now, let's consider God's Word. The Bible teaches us, "Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God." (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 WEB). This includes sexual relationships outside of marriage.
We must also address the fact that your boyfriend has mentioned having another girlfriend. This is not in line with God's design for relationships. "Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor that which is evil. Cling to that which is good." (Romans 12:9 WEB).
It's crucial to seek God's forgiveness for past actions and pursue purity in your relationships. "But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ, his Son, cleanses us from all sin." (1 John 1:7 WEB).
We encourage you to end this relationship, as it is not founded on biblical principles. God desires the best for you, and that includes a godly spouse who loves and respects you in purity. "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." (Genesis 2:24 WEB).
Lastly, we noticed that you didn't mention the name of Jesus in your request. It is through Jesus Christ alone that we can approach God. "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" (John 14:6 WEB). We pray that you will trust in Jesus and His redeeming love.