We understand your concern for your son, daughter-in-law, and their children. Let us pray and seek God's will together for your family.
Firstly, let us address the issue of belief. It is vital to acknowledge that Jesus Christ is the way, the truth, and the life, and that no one comes to the Father except through Him (John 14:6, WEB). Let us pray that your son will come to know Jesus personally, as it is only through Him that we can be saved and transformed.
**Prayer:**
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up [Son's Name] to You, asking that You reveal Yourself to him in a powerful way. Soften his heart to receive the truth of the Gospel, and help him to understand that You are the only source of true peace, love, and joy. We also pray for [Daughter-in-Law's Name], that You would strengthen her faith and encourage her heart as she strives to keep her family together.*
Regarding their relationship, we must remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16, WEB). While relationships can be challenging, it is important for your son to understand that God calls husbands to love their wives just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her (Ephesians 5:25, WEB). This love is not contingent on feelings but is a choice to selflessly care for and cherish one's spouse.
**Prayer:**
*Lord, we ask that You heal and strengthen the marriage between [Son's Name] and [Daughter-in-Law's Name]. Help them to love each other with Your love, and to work through their struggles with patience, kindness, and humility. Remind them that their love should reflect Your love for the church, and that their union is a lifelong commitment before You.*
It is also crucial to address the disrespect and verbal remarks. The Bible tells us to let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from us, with all malice (Ephesians 4:31, WEB). Instead, we should be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave us (Ephesians 4:32, WEB).
**Prayer:**
*Father, help [Son's Name] to control his temper and tongue. Convict his heart of the hurt he causes when he speaks harshly to his wife, and help him to seek forgiveness and change his ways. Help them both to foster an atmosphere of love, patience, and mutual respect in their home.*
As for your role, Scripture encourages us to instruct one another (Romans 15:14, WEB). It is commendable that you want to help, but remember to do so with gentleness and respect (1 Peter 3:15, WEB).
**Prayer:**
*Lord, guide [Your Name] as she seeks to help her son and daughter-in-law. Give her the right words to say, and help her to speak them with love and wisdom. Be with her as she supports and encourages them, and help her to trust in You for the outcome.*
Lastly, pray for your husband as well, that he too would model godly behavior and love towards you and your family (Ephesians 5:23, WEB).
**Prayer:**
*Father, we also lift up [Husband's Name] to You. Help him to be the husband and father You have called him to be, and to demonstrate Your love and kindness in his home. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*
Continue to trust in God and His plan for your family. He is faithful, and He hears your prayers.