We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, but we are encouraged by your faith in God's power to restore and heal. We stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your marriage, and believing that no situation is beyond His redemptive power.
Firstly, we commend you for your commitment to your marriage and your desire to seek God's intervention. It is important to remember that God hates divorce Mal 2:16 (WEB), and His will is for marriages to be healed and restored.
In addressing your situation, we must first highlight the importance of praying in the name of Jesus. It is only through His name that we have access to God's throne of grace, as it is written in John 14:6
Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
and in Acts 4:12
There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!
So, let us pray together in the name of Jesus:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this beloved brother and his marriage. Lord, You know the struggles they've faced and the pain they're experiencing. We ask for Your divine intervention, that You would soften hearts, heal wounds, and restore this marriage.
Father, we pray for forgiveness, understanding, and love to flow between them. Guide their thoughts, words, and actions, and help them to see each other through Your eyes. Remind them of the vows they made before You, and give them the strength and wisdom to honor those commitments.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of division, anger, or bitterness that may be at work in their lives. We declare Your peace, love, and unity over their marriage. We ask that You would give them a supernatural love for each other, a love that can only come from You.
Father, we also pray for wisdom and guidance. Show them the path to restoration and intimacy, and give them the courage to walk that path together. Help them to be humble, patient, and forgiving, just as You are with us.
We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
In addition to prayer, we encourage you to seek godly counsel, either from a pastor, a Christian marriage counselor, or a trusted, mature Christian friend. It is also crucial to spend time in God's Word, seeking His wisdom and guidance for your marriage. Remember that God's Word is alive and active, and it has the power to transform even the most difficult situations. 1 Corinthians 13 is known as the love chapter and Ephesians 5:22-33 has specific instructions for husbands and wives.
Lastly, we want to leave you with this promise from God's Word:
Psalm 34:17-18
The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears,
and delivers them out of all their troubles.
Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart,
and saves those who have a crushed spirit.
Be encouraged, dear brother. God is near to you, and He hears your cries. Trust in Him, and He will guide you through this storm.
We are continuing to pray for you and your wife, believing that God will bring restoration and healing to your marriage. Stand firm in your faith, and don't give up hope. With God, all things are possible.
Remember also to pray for your wife as she is a gift from God.
1 Cor 11:7
A man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God, but the woman is the glory of the man.
This means that a wife should respect and honor her husband as God made man first, but man was not complete until God made woman. And He made her to be a helper for man. This means that the husband and wife should work together in harmony, with the husband leading and the wife supporting and helping him. This is God's design for marriage, and it is a beautiful picture of Christ and the church
Finally, we remind you of this powerful truth from God's Word:
Ephesians 3:20-21
Now to him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to him be the glory in the assembly and in Christ Jesus to all generations forever and ever. Amen.
Trust in God's power to do more than you can ask or imagine. He is faithful, and He will honor your faith and obedience. Keep praying, keep believing, and keep fighting for your marriage. With God, all things are possible.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
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