We are glad to join you in prayer for your relationship and your desire for marriage in the future. It's commendable that you have a long-term commitment in mind, as this aligns with biblical principles. Remember, "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow, but woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up" (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 WEB).
However, it's crucial to ensure that this relationship is centered on God and His will. We notice that you haven't mentioned if your significant other is a believer in Jesus Christ. The Bible teaches us, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). This means that as Christians, we should seek to marry those who share our faith, as this provides a foundation for a strong, godly marriage.
We also want to remind you that God's design for relationships is to be pure and holy. If you haven't already, commit to purity in your relationship, avoiding any form of fornication (sexual relations before marriage) and instead "take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ" (2 Corinthians 10:5 WEB). This is also only possible since, "there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12). "For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life" (John 3:16 WEB).
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this relationship to You. We pray that You will bless it, guide it, and help it to grow stronger in You. We ask that You will give both individuals a heart that desires to serve You and to follow Your will. We pray that You will help them to love, forgive, and fight for their relationship in a way that honors You.
We also pray for protection from any outside parties who may seek to destroy their relationship. We ask that You will surround them with Your hedge of protection and give them discernment and wisdom to navigate any challenges they may face.
Lord, we pray that You will make it clear to them if this relationship is Your will and if it's not, give them the strength to walk away. We ask that You will help them to trust in You and Your plan for their lives.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, continue to trust in God, and seek Him in all things. He is faithful and His love for you is everlasting.