We are glad to join you in prayer for your relationship with your fiance Stephen. We all need prayer and God's intervention to keep things aligned with Gods will and for peace.
Firstly, it is important to remember that God desires for us to be in relationship with Him. Through Jesus Christ, we have access to God, and it is only through Jesus that we can be saved. As the Bible tells us, There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to people by which we must be saved Acts 4:12 WEB. We need to believe in the Lord Jesus Christ for salvation and also to access God the Father as there is no direct access without being saved. For there is one God, and one Revelator between God and men, a human being, Jesus Christ 1 Timothy 2:5 WEB how simple and easy it is to seek God through Jesus now. 26 Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light. 30 For my yoke is easy to bear, and my burden is light. (Matthew 11:26,28,30 WEB). So please make sure you both are going to and do believe in Jesus Christ. Jesus also explicitely mentions marriage "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate. Therefore I say to you if anyone sues you to take away your coat, let him have your cloak also Mark 10:9." That or why did you use the word fiancรฉ which is not in the bible. Fiance is associated with and by the world to justify sexual relations. It is ok to have courtship as a boylfriend and girlfriend. This would be to have a Christian courtship for marriage. Is there any reason you are not getting married now? Why is one waiting to get married? The Bible discusses the purpose for engagment as so: "Since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations only with his own wife, and each woman only with her own husband" 1 Corinthians 7.2 WEB says Since there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband. There are several concerns. God sees a spiritual union between a Christian Believer and Christ as a marriage. Also, being as Christian is to be spirit filled, which is literally an actual marriage. If sexual relations are occuring it should be stopped at once and repented for at once. If you are spirit filled you should claim your marriage and present it as a marriage to Christ as your only true spouse in spirituality.
We are instructed to live holy lives, set apart from the ways of the world. As it is written, But among you there must not be either sexual immorality, or any kind of impurity, or greed, or dishonesty. Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things, the wrath of God comes on the children of disobedience Ephesians 5:3,6 WEB. Marriage is mentioned by God as recognizing mariage makes it a marriage. Therefore, be alert and refrain from worldly ideas that could cause/force sexual immorality ending in rewards such as money or punishment such as government punishment and taxes.
We pray for you both. Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up your children to You. Lord, we know that through His shed blood will receive prayer being in Christ and understanding only three things will be left not love directed by God, faith not seen directed by God, and hope for a better life directed by God. Mankindways and thoughts left behind, we are not to lean on our own understanding. We pray for purity in their relationship, the AA of any sexual sin and a separation from the worldly concepts of relationship that are not according to your Word, anything not aligned with God's will, and for peace according to your will in the life of these children. We pray thew will be delivered from any trouble that comes from the schemes of the enemy. We ask for patience, forgiveness and understanding in their hearts. We pray for healing and protection while praying to prepare thier hearts and lives for Godly spouses to ensue. With peace, a firm foundation in Your Word, and a focus on You, Lord, be a hedge of protection round them and utilizing their gifts for your glory in this world. Heavenly Father keep thier hearts from temptation Lord open the eyes of their hearts and have the Holy Spirit interceed according to your will and not ours to be done as we pray the course for thier lives Lord please order their steps and make them whole and lacking nothing. So that this couple can face the challenges that may come with it in unity and trust in God. We pray they seek God with all the being and turn from the things of this world.
As the Bible says, as you therefore have received Christ Jesus the Lord, walk in him, rooted and built up in him, and established in the faith, even as you were taught, abounding in it in thanksgiving Colossians 2:6,7 WEB Dear Lord we pray for this couple so they can rejoice always and not quit praying always with thanksgiving God's will for you. This will set them apart.