We understand your concern for your relationship and we are here to pray with you and offer guidance rooted in the Word of God.
Firstly, we want to address the nature of your relationship. The Bible teaches us to be equally yoked with fellow believers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). A relationship where both parties are committed to God and seek His will is fundamental. We encourage you to pray fervently for his salvation and that God would draw him into a personal relationship with Him through Jesus Christ. As it is written, "Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved" (Romans 10:13, WEB).
Regarding the manipulative behavior, we need to remember that God desires for us to be in relationships that are built on love, respect, and mutual submission to one another out of reverence for Christ (Ephesians 5:21, WEB). Manipulation is not part of God's design for a healthy relationship. We encourage you to seek God's wisdom and pray for discernment. "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him" (James 1:5, WEB).
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your divine intervention in Feldlary's relationship. Lord, we pray for her significant other, that You would soften his heart and reveal Yourself to him. May he come to know You as his personal Savior and be delivered from any manipulative behavior. Lord, we pray for Feldlary, that You would give her the wisdom to navigate this relationship in a way that honors You. Guide her steps and surround her with Your peace and protection. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we encourage you to continue to seek God's will in this relationship. Trust in Him to lead you and to work in the heart of your significant other. Remember, God is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us (Ephesians 3:20, WEB). Keep your hope and faith in Him.