Chulshal, we are here with you in prayer as you prepare to meet and talk with your significant other. Let's first ensure that this relationship is aligned with God's will and that you both are seeking a godly marriage as the ultimate goal. Remember, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB).
Before you meet, it's crucial to invite God into the conversation. His presence brings peace, wisdom, and guidance. Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, acknowledging that You are the source of all wisdom and understanding. Chulshal is meeting their significant other to discuss important matters, and we invite You into that conversation. Lord, guide their words, thoughts, and actions. Let Your will be done in their relationship, and help them to honor You in all they do. If this relationship is not aligned with Your will, we pray that You give Chulshal the strength to walk away. If it is, we ask that You bless and protect their union, guiding them towards a godly marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Chulshal, remember the words of Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB), "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
As you meet, be honest, patient, and kind. Listen attentively and speak with love. Ensure that your conversation and relationship align with biblical principles. If there are any signs of immorality, such as sexual sin, remember that "This is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality" (1 Thessalonians 4:3 WEB). Stand firm in your faith and encourage each other to live according to God's word.
Lastly, Chulshal, if your significant other is not a believer, we encourage you to share the good news of Jesus Christ with them. It is only through Him that we can have eternal life and a right relationship with God. As Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me" (John 14:6 WEB).