Prayer for my relationship with my boyfriend

[Hauhod]

My boyfriend Lemmy and I, Cynthia have been arguing a lot lately, our arguments have been getting escalated very quickly, and there is a lot of anger in our fights, we love each other a lot but when there’s a misunderstanding, things get escalated fast. We have a lot of back and forths, my boyfriend tends to pass comments while we argue and it’s something that just makes the argument bigger. We get to the point where we scream at each other and get very anxious, I’ve been feeling unheard and we haven’t been able to be on the same page, we get emotionally angry but we want to make things work. I just want us to come to an understanding and for us to grow in the Lord. It’s been hard these past few months and I don’t know if these arguments is a message from the Lord to end the relationship, or if this is a test to make us strong. I’m very confused on what to do. We are both tired of crying and we are both mentally tired. We need guidance

 

[Articles]

Let us firstcome together in prayer for you.

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Cynthia and Lemmy. We pray for your peace and guidance in their relationship. We ask that you help them communicate effectively, listen to each other, and understand each other's perspectives, especially during disagreements. Help them to approach arguments without anger or defensiveness, but with love, patience, respect, and a willingness to understand. Give them wisdom, to know that this is your will for their lives, whether to keep trying to pursue marriage in the holy covenant you created, or to end their relationship. We ask for guidance from the Holy Spirit to make decisions that are pleasing to you.

Cynthia and Lemmy, we encourage you both to seek the Lord wholeheartedly and to trust in his wisdom. Remember that God's will is for your good and not for your harm. In every situation we are told to be joyful and give thanks. In fact, this is God's will for us through the Holy Spirit. As 1 Thessalonians chapter 5 verses 16 through 18 reminds us, Rejoice always. Pray without ceasing. In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus toward you.'

It is important to remember not to let the sun go down on your anger, or you give the devil a place. Eph 4 verse 26 through 27. God hates divorce, because of our hardness of heart. We need to welcome the betrothal as courtship, and honestly ask ourselves, both of you, whether marriage to serve God is our desire. As 2 Corth 6 verse 14 through 15 admonishes us, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers.

We also encourage you to seek godly counsel. Use Proverbs 15 verse 22 to guide you, Without seeking advice plans go wrong, but with many advisers they succeed.

It is clear you are not married yet. We seriously advise you to consider not having sex before marriage. It will help you each consider whether you truly love each other, and whether you give God first place in your lives. It will remove temptation for jealousy, anger, possessiveness, and control. You say you are both very tired of crying. We care for you and wish to save you from needless heartache and pain.

Lastly, it seems there was no mention of Jesus Christ or IJN in your request so please allow us to remind you that It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. We can do nothing without Him. As the Word in John Chapter 15 verse 5 tells us, 'I am the vine. You are the branches. He who remains in me, and I in him, the same bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.'

We pray for you both to seek God's will and remain strong in faith. We pray that you both discover God's purpose for your lives and your union, and seek to serve Him. Please keep us informed of your progress. We are always here to help.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Cynthia, praying alongside you and Lemmy. It's tough when relationships hit rough patches, but remember, God is always there, ready to guide and strengthen you both. Let's ask Him to help you communicate better, really listen to each other, and understand each other's perspectives, even during disagreements. May He fill you with His love, patience, and respect, and help you approach arguments with a willingness to understand, not just defend. We're lifting you up, trusting that God has a plan for your relationship, whether that's to grow stronger together or to part ways. Keep seeking Him, and remember, His will is always for your good. We're here for you, every step of the way. In Jesus' name, we pray.

 

[Abla]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


sermons

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to uphold you and Lemmy in our prayers, Cynthia. We are honored that you have given us the privilege to pray on your behalf and stand in agreement with you. We trust that God is working in your relationship, even through these challenges.

If you have seen improvements in your communication and understanding, we would love to hear about it. Please share a praise report so we can all rejoice with you. If the arguments and anger persist, do not hesitate to post an update. We are committed to continuing in prayer with you.

We pray that God grants both of you wisdom, patience, and a spirit of gentleness as you navigate these difficulties. May He guide your conversations, soften your hearts towards each other, and help you both grow in the Lord. We pray for clarity and discernment, so that you may understand His will for your relationship.

Remember, God's timing is perfect. He may be using these trials to strengthen your faith and deepen your trust in Him. Lean on Him for support, and trust that He will lead you both to a place of peace and understanding.

We are here for you, Cynthia. We will continue to pray for you and Lemmy, asking God to bless you both as you seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ.

Praying in Jesus Name.