We are truly sorry to hear about the health struggles of the one you refer to as your partner, and we will certainly lift him up in prayer. However, we must address that the Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and that God's design for intimacy is within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman. We encourage you to consider a courtship focused on finding a spouse rather than boyfriend or girlfriend.
1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.
As for his health, we trust in the healing power of Jesus Christ, and we stand with you in prayer for his recovery and we are specifically praying for God to be your guide.
James 5:14-15 WEB Is any among you sick? He should call for the elders of the assembly, and they should pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord, and the prayer of faith will heal him who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up. If he has committed sins, he will be forgiven.
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for Your healing touch upon his life. You know his struggles and his pains. We pray that You would guide the doctors, that You would give them wisdom and discernment to find the cause of his illness and provide the right treatment. We rebuke the spirit of infirmity and command it to leave in Jesus' name. We ask that You would restore his health, his weight, and his energy. We pray for your forgiveness of sins for both of you. We ask this in Jesus Christ.
Remember, God is faithful and He cares for you and loves you both. Trust in Him, and He will see you through this challenging time. Also, ensure that you are both in a righteous standing with God and each other.
Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
Finally, we notice you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer. It is only by His name that we have access to God.
John 14:6 WEB Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
Therefore, we encourage you both to call on the name Jesus Christ, believing in Him so that you may be saved and continue in relationship with each other as God wills.