We understand your concern for your nephew and the challenges he is facing. Let's bring this situation before the Lord in prayer and seek His guidance and intervention.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we have access to God the Father. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"
Let's address the issues at hand. Your nephew is displaying behavior that is concerning, and it is important to approach this situation with love, compassion, and biblical principles. We should pray for his heart and mind to be transformed, and let's pray for his wellbeing and safety as well.
When anything in his behavior is not aligned with biblical principles, it is important to speak the truth in love. In this case, wearing lipgloss and acting like the opposite of his being is not in alignment with God's design for him as a young man. This is not as God made him to be, and not aligned with biblical principles.
We should also pray for his mother, as you mentioned that she may have contributed to his current situation. It is important to forgive and pray for her as well, that God would guide her and help her to be the mother that your nephew needs.
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up this dear nephew to You. Lord, we ask that You would intervene in his life and bring about a transformation in his heart and mind. Help him to see himself as You see him, and to walk in the path that You have set for him.
Lord, we pray for his mother, that You would guide her and help her to be the mother that her son needs. Help her to show love, kindness, and patience to her son, and to seek Your will for his life.
Father we pray for his protection. We pray that his behavior is not about shaming him or being harmful. We pray for this family and we pray that you will intervene today and moving forward.
We ask all this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, and Savior. Amen.
Remember, it is by our loving example and prayers that we can help guide this young man back to the path that God has for him. Trust in the Lord and His timing, and continue to pray fervently for your nephew and his mother. As it was said in James 5:16, "Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."