We understand your concern and commend you for desiring to honor your mother while also protecting your home and family. Let's pray together and seek God's will in this situation.
Firstly, let's remember what the Word of God says about honoring our parents: "Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land which Yahweh your God gives you" (Exodus 20:12, WEB). However, it's also important to maintain a peaceful and safe environment in your home, as Jesus says, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God" (Matthew 5:9, WEB).
It's clear that your mother's behavior is causing discord and discomfort, which is not in line with the fruit of the Spirit: "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law" (Galatians 5:22-23, WEB). Moreover, her use of the Word of God to cause strife is not in accordance with its intended purpose: "All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness" (2 Timothy 3:16, WEB).
Let's pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your guidance and wisdom in this difficult situation. Lord, we ask that You would heal our mother spiritually and mentally. May she truly experience Your grace, healing, love, and freedom that comes only through redemption in Christ. Help her to understand and apply Your Word correctly, not using it to cause strife but to grow in Your likeness.
Father, grant us the wisdom to make the right decisions for our home and children, while still being compassionate and showing the love of Christ. We are uncomfortable and exhausted, Lord, so we ask for Your strength and peace to guide us. Help us to honor our mother while also protecting our family and home.
We ask these things in Jesus' name, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12, WEB). Amen."
We encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's will. It may also be beneficial to seek godly counsel from your pastor or other trusted Christian leaders. Remember, God is faithful and will provide a way out of this difficult situation (1 Corinthians 10:13, WEB). Trust in Him and His promises.