Prayer for my mother to die

[Cuchmarth]

I am 46 years old female. My mother feels I am useless now just because I have a close friend who is like a sister to me. She has lot her both parents and her relatives and her own sister doesn't take care of her. I try to be with her in her good and bad times and also I feel happy in her presence. However MG mother doesn't like her thinking she is a liar and is taking me for granted and using me which is not the case. I couldn't achieve anything in life, had a failed marriage again because of my parents who never provoked me to stay with my husband. I can't go out of town to see different places. I just should be at home doing all home chores and obeying whatever she says and wants.. Please help me.

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about your situation and the struggles you're facing with your mother. First, we want to address the title of your request.

Praying for someone's death is against biblical principles. The Lord tells us, Honor your father and your mother, as WEB says in Exodus 20:12. Furthermore, anyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life remaining in him as mentioned in First John 3:15. This is a serious issue and needs to be addressed first. It is important to recognize the sanctity of life and the importance of honoring our parents, even in difficult situations.

It's clear that you are experiencing a lot of pain and frustration, but it's crucial to approach this situation with love, patience, prayer, and understanding. The scriptures say, "Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice." in Ephesians 4:31. Instead, "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." in Ephesians 6:4. Children must learn to honor their parents. No where in the scriptures does it permit hatred or evil thoughts towards parents. But, you must also understand that scripture does not permit a parent to rule their children with an iron fist or making a child feel worthless.

Regarding your friendship, it's important to choose friends who are godly and who will have a positive influence on your life. Proverbs 12:26 says, A righteous person is cautious in friendship, but the way of the wicked leads them astray. It is also not forbidden to have a close friend to provide emotional support. If this relationship with your friend is a healthy relationship this needs to be communicated to your mother and you should not be forced to do things that you do not want to.

Regarding your marriage, scriptures say, "Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. " in Ephesians 5:31. It is also unacceptable for a parent to drive your marriage apart. If this was God's will for you to be married you need to make sure that this was made known to your parents. Your duty as a wife is to be obedient to your husband and your husband alone, not your mother. All believers must obey scripture rather than the desires of our mothers and fathers. And all mothers and fathers must recognize when their children should leave the household to become one with their spouse.

Let's pray together:

Father God, we come to you in the name of Jesus, pleading for Your intervention in this difficult situation. We pray that You would soften your mother's heart and help her to see the value and love that you bring to her life. We ask for forgiveness if there are any feelings of bitterness and hate and ask for them to be removed from your life. We pray that she would come to know Jesus as her personal Savior and have her heart convicted by the Holy Spirit if this has not already happened. Help her to understand that her daughter needs and deserves happiness in life. We also pray for you,that God would grant you the strength, wisdom, and patience to navigate this challenging time. Help you to forgive your parents and find rest in His love. Open your heart to hear His voice and to do his will. We pray all of this in Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[LeoLeo]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sister. We understand the pain and frustration you're feeling, and we want you to know that you're not alone. It's heartbreaking to feel unappreciated and misunderstood by your own mother, especially when you're only trying to love and care for her.

First, let's focus on the love and respect we owe our parents. It's true that we should honor our father and mother, but that doesn't mean we should endure abuse or manipulation. God calls us to love even in difficult circumstances, but He also calls us to be wise and discerning. Let's pray for wisdom to navigate this situation with grace and boundaries.

We should also remember that God sees our heart and knows our intentions. He knows the love and effort you're putting into your relationship with your mother. Trust that He is with you, even in the midst of this storm.

As for your close friendship, it's important to communicate openly with your mother about this relationship. God has given us the gift of community and friendship, and it's not wrong to have a sister-like bond with someone outside of your family. However, it's crucial to maintain healthy boundaries and respect for your mother's feelings.

Regarding your marriage, it's unfortunate that your parents played a role in its failure. But remember, God has a plan for your future. He can restore what was lost and make a way where there seems to be no way. Trust in His timing and His will for your life.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come to You today, burdened but hopeful. We lift up [Your Name]'s mother, asking You to touch her heart and open her eyes to see the love and value [Your Name] brings to her life. Help her to understand that [Your Name] needs and deserves happiness, just as any child would. We ask for forgiveness for any bitterness or resentment, and we ask for Your healing power to touch both of their hearts.

We pray for [Your Name], asking for strength, wisdom, and patience to navigate this challenging time. Help her to forgive her parents and find rest in Your love. Guide her steps and help her to hear Your voice clearly.

We pray for [Your Name]'s close friendship, asking for wisdom in communicating with her mother about this relationship. Help them to maintain healthy boundaries and respect for one another.

We trust in Your plan and Your will for [Your Name]'s life. We believe that You can restore what was lost and make a way where there seems to be no way. We claim Your promise in Jeremiah 29:11, that You have plans to prosper [Your Name] and not to harm her, plans to give her hope and a future.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

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