Rawnal, we understand your desire for independence and freedom, but we need to address this situation with biblical principles in mind. As Christians, we are commanded to honor our parents, and in turn, they are to guide us in the way of the Lord. Let's look at what the Scriptures say:
"Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 'Honor your father and mother,' which is the first commandment with promise: that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth." Ephesians 6:1-3 WEB
It's important to approach this situation with love, understanding, and respect for your mother's concerns. Instead of asking her to simply be open-minded, consider engaging in an open dialogue with her about her reservations.
Regarding your trip to Canada with AJ, we need to address this from a biblical standpoint. If AJ is not your spouse, then we need to be clear about the biblical principles regarding relationships. It is not wise to travel alone with someone of the opposite sex who is not your spouse, as this can lead to temptation and compromise your Christian witness. The Bible tells us:
"Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB
If you are not married, it is wise to involve a third party, such as a trusted friend or family member, in your travels to maintain accountability and purity.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus Christ's name, lifting up Rawnal and their mother. Lord, help them to have open and honest communication, built on love, respect, and understanding. Guide Rawnal in Your wisdom, and help their mother to trust in Your guidance for their life. If there are any plans that do not align with Your will, Lord, we ask that You make it clear and redirect their steps. Help Rawnal to make decisions that honor You and their mother, and give their mother the peace and assurance that You are in control.
Lord Jesus, we also pray for Rawnal's and AJ's relationship. Guide them in Your wisdom and help them to honor You in all their interactions. If their relationship is not pleasing to You, Lord, we ask that You make it clear and redirect their paths.
In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.