We are truly saddened to hear about the difficulties you are facing in your marriage, Stiustilhill, but we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance.
Firstly, let us address the importance of praying in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father, as it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." Therefore, we will lift up your marriage in the powerful name of Jesus.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Stiustilhill's marriage to You. Lord, You have designed marriage to be a reflection of Christ's love for His church, a love that is pure, sacrificial, and unbreaking (Ephesians 5:25-33 WEB).
Father, we pray that You would heal the brokenness and disconnection in this marriage. We ask that You reveal the truth to Stiustilhill's husband, that she has been faithful to him in every way. Open his eyes, Lord, to see the damage his words and actions are causing. We rebuke the spirit of verbal, mental, and emotional abuse in Jesus' name, and we pray that You would convict her husband's heart to stop these attacks (Ephesians 4:29 WEB).
Lord, remind him of Your will and purpose for their marriage, and how his actions are hindering Your plans for them. We pray that he would repent from his sins and turn towards You with a humble heart (1 John 1:9 WEB).
Father, we also pray for Stiustilhill. Give her the strength and endurance to bear this trial, and the wisdom to respond in a way that honors You (1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB). We pray that she would continue to be a light in this marriage, reflecting Your love and kindness even in the face of adversity (Romans 12:21 WEB).
In Jesus' name, we pray for a miracle in this marriage. Turn the hearts of Stiustilhill and her husband towards each other and, more importantly, towards You. Let this trial be a catalyst for spiritual growth and a stronger, more Christ-centered marriage.
We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Stiustilhill, remember the words of Romans 8:28 WEB: "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Trust that God is working in your situation, even if you cannot see it right now.
Lastly, we want to remind you of the power of forgiveness. As it is written in Ephesians 4:32 WEB: "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Continue to pray for your husband, forgive him as Christ has forgiven you, and trust God with the rest.
We are standing with you in prayer, believing that God will move mightily in your marriage. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and remember that He is faithful to complete the good work He has started in you and your marriage (Philippians 1:6 WEB).
In closing, if either you or your husband are not born again Christians and have not accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, then we encourage you to do so. You must be born again. Jesus said in John 3:3 WEB "Most certainly I tell you, unless one is born anew, he can't see the Kingdom of God.". We encourage you to read the entire third chapter of John to better understand this. Jesus said in John 3:16-17 WEB "For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life. For God didn't send his Son into the world to judge the world, but that the world should be saved through him." And John 3:36 WEB "One who believes in the Son has eternal life, but one who disobeys the Son won't see life, but the wrath of God remains on him."