Jorge, we hear your heart's cry and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your life and Sandra's. We commend you for bringing your requests to God, as it is written in Philippians 4:6-7 WEB, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
Firstly, we want to encourage you to continue pursuing godly character as you await God's leading. As Psalm 37:3-5 WEB says, "Trust in the LORD, and do good. Dwell in the land, and enjoy safe pasture. Also delight yourself in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD. Trust also in him, and he will do this."
Regarding Sandra, we pray that God would soften her heart and heal her from her past hurts. We ask God to give you wisdom and patience as you interact with her. Colossians 4:6 WEB reminds us, "Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one." Remember, Jorge, that true love is patient and kind, not arrogant or rude, not insisting on its own way (1 Corinthians 13:4-5 WEB).
However, we also want to caution you, Jorge. It's important to discern if Sandra's fears and doubts are from God's leading or merely from past hurt. Not all relationships are God's will, and sometimes He uses circumstances to direct us away from certain paths. Seek God's face earnestly, and be open to His will, even if it's not what you desire.
We also want to address your feelings of despair and negative thoughts. Remember that God's love for you is not dependent on this relationship. Trust in His unfailing love, as Psalm 147:3 WEB says, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."
Lastly, we praise God that you have prayed in Jesus' name. It is through Him that we have access to the Father, as it is written in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Jorge and Sandra. Lord, we ask for Your will to be done in their lives. Soften Sandra's heart, Lord, and heal her from her past. Give Jorge wisdom, patience, and peace as he waits on You. Help him to trust in You and to desire Your will above all else. Comfort his heart, Lord, and remind him of Your unfailing love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.