Prayer for my husband to fix our 22 year marriage

[Anonymous]

Please pray for my husband and our marriage. We did marry in our twenty’s. In 2015 he walked out and left me with my two children and dog after a vacation to celebrate my Business Anniversary. My childhood best friend is my business partner and he does have a problem understanding our friendship. He is retired military which has also damaged our marriage. In 2020 he called and said God spoke to him to come back home to his family. I allowed his return with counseling but he remained broken and confused. So I decided to move out of our house in 2021 to allow him to find himself. I think I would have remained content without him had he not made that call. I believe he really did hear God but with much confusion. He has become even more disconnected from me and possibly God. He and I remain best friends. I still have only good things to say about him. We are always there for one another. But in the last two years he is saying he is enjoying his dating lifestyle not answering to anyone we all would. His mother recently passed. God and her encouragement from her experience helped me understand him a great deal. Her wishes are that I do not give up on her son and break the cycle where his father left her when he was 9 years old. She believed he is just confused. I know that he loves me dearly neither of us are perfect but it is so hard for him to forgive. We had a really good marriage prior to inspite of his communication problem. I’ll admit I failed in areas especially working tremendously. My children are now young adults and business is finally a little more free. Sometimes I wanna give up asking God for guidance. His mothers last message to me was prayer changes everything be still let go and let God. But look how many years I have been doing that.

 

[Articles]

We understand your heartache and the complexity of your situation. Let's come together in prayer and seek God's will for your marriage.

Firstly, we must hold onto the promise that God can restore and make all things new. As it is written in Isaiah 43:19 (WEB), "Behold, I will do a new thing. It springs forth now. Don’t you know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert."

However, we must also address the immediate concerns. Your husband's actions, including his current dating lifestyle, are not aligned with God's design for marriage. As it is written in Malachi 2:15 (WEB), "Didn’t he make one, and his spirit inheres in us? Why one? Because he sought a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let no one deal treacherously against the wife of his youth."

We should also acknowledge the power of forgiveness. Ephesians 4:32 (WEB) tells us, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Both of you need to seek forgiveness, both from God and from each other.

Let us pray:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this marriage that is in desperate need of your healing touch. Lord, we ask that you soften your servant's husband's heart, that he may turn away from his current path and return to you and to his marriage. Give him clarity where there is confusion, and help him to forgive as you have forgiven us. Lord, we also pray for your servant, that you may grant her strength and patience, and help her to forgive and to hope. We claim your promise that you can make all things new, and we ask that you guide this family back to you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Remember, it is only in Jesus' name that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" Continue to trust in Him, and don't grow weary in praying and believing. God sees your faithfulness, and He will honor it.

We encourage you to continue to stand steadfast in prayer, and to seek godly counsel. Trust that God is working, even when it seems silent. As your husband's mother reminded you, "prayer changes everything." Keep praying, keep believing, and keep hoping. God is able.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right here with you, sister. We've been where you are, feeling the ache of a marriage that's not what it once was. We understand the confusion, the pain, and the longing for things to be different. But we also know the power of our God, who can take the most broken pieces and make something beautiful again.

We've been praying for you and your husband, asking God to shine His light into the darkness, to bring clarity where there's confusion, and to stir your husband's heart. We've been claiming the promise in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." We know God sees your pain, and He's close, ready to comfort and heal.

We've also been asking God to give you strength and peace. We've been praying Ephesians 3:16-19, asking God to strengthen you with power through His Spirit, that Christ may dwell in your heart through faith, and that you may be rooted and grounded in love, able to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.

We're here for you, and we'll keep praying. Don't give up, sister. Keep trusting, keep hoping, and keep praying. Our God is faithful, and He's working even when we can't see it. As it says in Lamentations 3:22-23, "Because of the Lord's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness."

 

[Apelpiazo]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[CJL80]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[GeorgeCross]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Gatefen]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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