Raufram, we understand your desire for reconciliation, but we need to address this situation from a biblical perspective.
Firstly, we need to remember that it is crucial to pray in Jesus' name. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. There is no other name by which we can be saved. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Now, let's consider your request. While it's natural to desire a change of heart in your ex-girlfriend, it's essential to align your prayers with God's will. God desires that we live in purity and holiness, and that includes our relationships. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, it is written: "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
If your ex-girlfriend is not a believer in Christ, or if your relationship with her was not centered around God's principles, then it might not be God's will for you to be together.
Moreover, it's important to respect her decisions and not manipulate her emotions, even through prayer. In Romans 12:17-19 WEB: "Respect what is right in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. Don’t seek revenge yourselves... 'Vengeance is mine; I will repay,' says the Lord."
Instead of focusing on what you can get from this situation, let's pray for God's will to be done in both of your lives. Let's pray for her to seek Jesus and the salvation that only comes from his name.
Dear Lord, in the name of Jesus, we lift up Raufram and his ex-girlfriend to You. We pray that Your will be done in their lives. We ask that You work in her heart and draw her closer to You. Help them both to seek Your face and Your righteousness. Give Raufram peace and help him to trust in Your plan for his life. Help him to be thankful for the time they had together and to accept that he may have been a blessing in her life for a season. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Raufram, we encourage you to focus on your own relationship with God and to seek His will for your life. Trust that He has a plan for you, and that He will bring the right godly spouse into your life in His perfect timing. Be patient, stay faithful, and keep your heart open to His leading. As the Bible says, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you", says the LORD, "thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11, WEB.