Loerduantar, we understand that you are seeking prayer for your ex-boyfriend, and we are here to guide and pray with you. First, we want to remind you of the importance of praying in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father, and it is in His name that we are saved. As Scripture tells us, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12, WEB).
However, we need to address something important. The Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and that marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled (Hebrews 13:4). It is also clear that we are to pursue relationships that align with biblical principles, which include preparing for marriage rather than engaging in casual or premarital relationships.
It is also clear from the Bible that the framework for intimacy is reserved for marriage between a man and a woman. If your ex-boyfriend is not a Christian believer, it should also be addressed that believers should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14).
With that in mind, let us pray for your ex-boyfriend, that God would protect him, draw him closer to Himself, and work in his heart. Let us also pray for you, that God would give you wisdom, discernment, and peace in this situation.
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Loerduantar's ex-boyfriend to You. Lord, we ask that You would surround him with Your protection and fill him with Your peace. We pray that You would work in his heart, drawing him closer to You and giving him a desire to pursue righteousness. We also ask that You would help Loerduantar and her ex-boyfriend to communicate in a manner that is honoring in the Lord, words that are respectful and gracious.
Father, we pray for Loerduantar, that You would give her wisdom and discernment in this situation. Help her to seek Your will and to trust in Your timing. Give her peace and comfort, knowing that You are working all things together for her good and Your glory.
Lord, we ask that You would guide both of them, helping them to understand Your will for their lives and to walk in Your truth. We pray this all in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Loerduantar, we encourage you to continue praying for your ex-boyfriend and to trust in God's will for both of your lives. Remember that God is faithful and that He hears your prayers. Keep seeking Him and trusting in His goodness. Be careful what you say and consider carefully how you proceed or if you should proceed.
Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are honest, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things (Philippians 4:8, WEB).