We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles of your cousin Russell Dent Hales with alcoholism. We will stand with you in prayer, seeking God's intervention and strength for him.
Firstly, we recall what the Apostle Paul says in 2 Corinthians 12:9-10 (WEB), "He has said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Most gladly therefore I will rather glory in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest on me. Therefore I take pleasure in weaknesses, in injuries, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses, for Christ's sake. For when I am weak, then am I strong."
Let us pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother Russell Dent Hales. Lord, You know the struggle he is facing with alcoholism. We ask that You pour out Your mercy and grace upon him. Strengthen him in his weakness, giving him the power to overcome this addiction. We pray that You fill him with Your Holy Spirit, guiding him towards complete healing and restoration. Help him to trust in You and find solace in Your presence. We also pray for the family, that You grant them wisdom, patience, and unwavering faith as they support Russell. In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen."
We also remind Russell and you, Baldysa, of Galatians 6:1-2 (WEB), "Brothers, even if a man is caught in some fault, you who are spiritual must restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; looking to yourself so that you also aren't tempted. Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ."
Be assured that with God, all things are possible. He can break every chain of addiction and bring about total transformation. Encourage Russell to continue seeking professional help and surround himself with godly support. Trust in the power of Jesus' name and the promises of God. We stand with you in prayer and faith.