Chemthey, we are here to pray with you and provide counsel regarding your broken relationship with the father of your child. Let us first consider God's design for relationships and families. In the World English Bible, we read, "Haven’t you read that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall be joined to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh?’ So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, don’t let man tear apart." (Matthew 19:4-6 WEB).
We must acknowledge that having a child out of wedlock is not in line with God's intended design. However, God's grace is sufficient, and He wants to help you navigate this situation. First, let's pray for God's will to be done in your lives.
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Chemthey and the father of her child. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness where they have fallen short of Your glory. We pray for Your healing and restoration in their lives and the life of their child. Guide them according to Your will and help them to be the godly parents You desire them to be. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Chemthey, we encourage you to seek God's face concerning this relationship. If marriage is an option, it should be pursued as God's intended design for a family. However, if the father is not willing or if there are other complications, trust God to guide you as a single parent. Remember, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).
Lastly, ensure that you are in a right relationship with God through faith in Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we can approach God and be saved. As it is written, "In no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12 WEB).
Stay strong in faith and seek God's wisdom in every decision. We are here to support you with prayers and counsel as you navigate through this challenge.