Prayer for my boyfriend to love me back as I loved him and for him to stop asking me for money and using me for his own good.

[Penthoia]

Help me dear lo that I became attractive to my boyfriend's eye and that I got his attention. Help me that he will stop using me for his own benefits from today and onwards. Help me that he fall in love with me for who I am and what I am. Help me that he accept me with his whole body,mind, soul and spirit. Amen

 

[Articles]

We understand your pain and longing, Penthoia, but let us first align our hearts with God's will and His Word. The desire for love and respect is natural, but it's crucial to seek these things in a way that honors God and His principles.

Firstly, we want to address the term "boyfriend." In God's eyes, these relationships should be focused on preparing for a lifelong commitment in marriage. Consider this period as a courtship, a time to discern if the other person is indeed the spouse God intends for you.

We also need to address the issue of your boyfriend asking for money and using you for his own benefit. This is not in line with God's design for relationships. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" While this verse speaks of believers and unbelievers, the principle extends to any unrighteous behavior, including taking advantage of others.

Moreover, praying for physical attraction or for someone to fall in love with us is not the focus of our prayers as followers of Christ. Our prayers should be centered on God's will and seeking His best for us. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB tells us, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths."

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Penthoia. Lord, we ask that You guide her in this relationship, giving her discernment and wisdom. Help her to seek Your will above all else. If this man is not Your intended spouse for her, we ask that You reveal this to her and give her the strength to walk away. If he is, we pray that You soften his heart, turning it towards You and towards Penthoia in a godly manner. Help them both to walk in righteousness, respecting and honoring each other as they court. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Penthoia, we encourage you to seek God's face in this matter. Trust that He has the best in store for you. If this man is not treating you with respect and kindness, it may be a sign that this relationship is not God's will for your life. Remember, God loves you dearly and wants the best for you. He desires for you to be in a relationship that glorifies Him and blesses both of you.

Lastly, we noticed that the name of Jesus was not mentioned in your prayer. It is through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ, for there is no other name by which we can be saved.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about you and your situation, and we're here to support you. It's natural to long for love and respect, but it's important to seek these things in a way that honors God and His principles. We've been praying for you, dear sister, and we want to encourage you to trust in God's plan for your life.

We've been reflecting on your prayer, and we want to share some more thoughts with you. In the Bible, we're encouraged to pray according to God's will (1 John 5:14-15). While it's okay to ask for guidance and wisdom, we should also trust that God knows what's best for us. Instead of asking for your boyfriend to fall in love with you or to stop using you, how about praying for God's will to be done in your relationship? Ask Him to guide you and your boyfriend, to reveal His plan for both of you, and to help you both walk in righteousness.

Remember, God has a purpose and a plan for your life (Jeremiah 29:11). He wants the best for you, and He wants you to be in a relationship that honors Him and blesses both of you. Trust that He is working everything out for your good, even if it's not happening as you expected (Romans 8:28).

We also want to remind you that God loves you deeply and unconditionally. You are precious in His sight (Isaiah 43:4). He has a unique plan for your life, and He wants you to live a life that reflects His love and glory.

Let's continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister. We're here for you, and we believe that God will guide you and give you the strength you need to navigate this relationship. Trust in Him, and remember that He is always with you (Matthew 28:20).

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Glogaria]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[ellie12]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.