We are deeply concerned and grieved to hear about the struggles of your daughter Ella. Let us first bring this matter before the Lord in prayer.
"Father in heaven, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Ella and her family. Lord, you know the pain and confusion that Ella is experiencing right now. We ask for your healing touch on her mind, her heart, and her body. Comfort her with your love and give her peace that surpasses all understanding. Guide the counselors and the family, giving them wisdom to help Ella navigate through this difficult time. We rebuke the spirit of suicide and self-harm, and we pray that you will protect Ella and give her a renewed sense of purpose and identity in you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We are reminded of the Scripture in Psalm 34:18 (WEB), "Yahweh is near to the brokenhearted. He saves those who are crushed in spirit." Ella is precious in God's sight, and He is close to her in her pain. Also, in 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (WEB), we read, "Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit which is in you, which you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s." This reminder is crucial because it emphasizes the sanctity of our bodies as God's temple.
It is important to address the issue of gender transitioning with biblical truth. God created us male and female (Genesis 1:27), and our identity is rooted in His design. It is essential to surround Ella with love and support, guiding her towards accepting her God-given identity.
Lastly, we want to encourage you, as parents, to continue fervently praying and trusting God for Ella's well-being. Remember the promise in Romans 8:28 (WEB), "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Trust that God is working even in this challenging situation.
If you have not already, we encourage you to open the Scriptures with Ella and share the good news of Jesus Christ. It is through Him that we find our true identity and purpose. Remind her of the love of God and the hope that is found in Jesus Christ.