We understand your dilemma, Seldal, and we are here to pray with you and offer guidance from the Scriptures. First, let us pray together.
"Father in heaven, we come before You in Jesus' name to seek Your will for Seldal. Lord, she is at a crossroads and needs Your clear guidance. We ask that You grant her the wisdom she seeks, as You have promised in Your Word, 'If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him' (James 1:5 WEB). Reveal to her Your plans and give her a discerning heart to know whether to pursue this teaching opportunity or to move on. We also pray for her future, that You would bless her and her husband with a family, and provide for all their needs according to Your riches in glory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Seldal, it is commendable that you are seeking God's will in your decisions. Remember, God has a plan and a purpose for you, as it is written, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future" (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). Trust that He will guide you if you seek Him with all your heart.
Regarding your desire to have children and provide for them, it is a noble and godly aspiration. Children are a blessing from the Lord, as Psalm 127:3 (WEB) tells us, "Behold, children are a heritage of Yahweh. The fruit of the womb is his reward." Keep praying and trusting God for this blessing.
Lastly, you mentioned that you might need to move countries. Be assured that God's presence and provisions are not limited by geographical boundaries. As Joshua 1:9 (WEB) encourages us, "Havenβt I commanded you? Be strong and courageous! Donβt be afraid or discouraged, for Yahweh your God is with you wherever you go."
Continue to seek God's face, and He will direct your paths. Always remember that it is in Jesus' name we have access to the Father, as it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). Trust in Him, and He will never fail you.