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Wheytorain

Disciple of Prayer
My husband has been physically, emotionally, spiritually, and sexually abusive to me for years. He has always cheated on me but I thought once we got married it would stop. He committed adultery the first 2 weeks of our marriage because he said that he didn't get over me seeing someone while we were separated, so he used that to be with several women. After 9 years of this abuse, in 2010, I committed adultery and now he can't handle what he dished out. To this day, he keeps throwing it up in my face and chokes me out and humiliates me. I have confessed my sins to God, repented of my sins, and turned from sin. I personally saw satan enter my husband one night we were in bed and his chest rose all the way up and his eyes were fixated while he was fussing at me. In his mind since I committed adultery 15 years ago he says the only way we can fix our marriage is for us to have a threesome or he keeps cheating and I better not say anything to him about it. He said he needs to give me consequences for what I did. Almighty God has kept me from flipping all the way out. He tells me that if I leave him he will kill me and himself. He's full of anger, he isolates me, I hate going home, I'm like a prisoner in my own home.
 
We are truly heartbroken to hear about the physical, emotional, spiritual, and sexual abuse you have endured at the hands of your husband. We want you to know that this is not God's design for marriage, and that the behavior you've described is not only sinful but also criminal.

Firstly, we must address the issue of sin and repentance. You've mentioned that you confessed your sins to God, repented, and turned from them. This is what God asks of us, as stated in Acts 3:19 WEB: "Repent therefore, and turn again, that your sins may be blotted out, so that there may come times of refreshing from the presence of the Lord." However, your husband's continued abuse and demands for inappropriate sexual acts are not from God. The Bible tells us to flee from sexual immorality in 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB: "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."

God's design for marriage is one of love, respect, and mutual submission, as seen in Ephesians 5:21-33 WEB. It is not a place for abuse, control, or forced sexual acts. In 1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB, it is written, "But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband." This passage encourages faithfulness in marriage, not using past sins as a means to justify further sin.

Your husband's threats to kill you and himself if you leave are signs of extreme control and manipulation. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB tells us, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." God does not want you to live in fear and abuse. He wants you to trust Him and follow His will, not the twisted demands of an abusive spouse.

We strongly encourage you to seek help from local authorities, a trusted pastor, or a Christian counselor who can provide guidance and support as you navigate this situation. Your safety is of utmost importance, and God wants you to be free from this abuse.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up our sister who is enduring unimaginable abuse at the hands of her husband. Lord, we ask that You intervene in this situation and provide a way out for her. Give her the strength and courage to seek help and find safety. Open the eyes of her husband to the gravity of his sins, and bring him to true repentance. Help her to trust in You and follow Your will, not the destructive demands of her husband. In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray for protection, healing, and deliverance from this abusive situation. We above all pray that he come to know Jesus Christ as his Savior.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Please know that you are not alone, and that God sees your suffering. He loves you and wants the best for you. Trust in Him, and He will make a way.
 
Oh, dear sister, our hearts ache for you as you bear this heavy burden. We want you to know that you are seen, you are heard, and you are not alone in this. We've been praying for you since we first read your post, and we want to remind you of the incredible love and care that God has for you.

In times like these, it's easy to feel trapped, to feel like there's no way out. But remember, God is bigger than any situation, any circumstance. He sees your pain, He knows your fear, and He wants to set you free. In Psalm 34:18, it says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." He is near, dear sister. He is near.

We want to encourage you to keep trusting in God, to keep pouring out your heart to Him. He is your refuge, your strength, and your shield. In times of fear, remember His promise in 2 Timothy 1:7, "For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind." He has not given you a spirit of fear, but one of power, love, and a sound mind.

We also want to remind you that God has a purpose and a plan for your life. He sees the abuse you've endured, and He will use it for your good and His glory. As it says in Romans 8:28, "And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose."

Please, dear sister, keep fighting. Keep trusting. Keep praying. And know that we are here for you, praying for you, and believing in the power of God to bring you through this. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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We continue to lift you and your husband up in prayer, dear sister. Thank you for sharing your burden with us and giving us the privilege to intercede on your behalf. We stand in agreement with you for God's will to be done in your marriage and for His peace and protection to cover you both.

If God has started to work in your husband's heart and your marriage, we would be blessed to hear about it. Please share a praise report so we can all rejoice together in God's faithfulness. If the situation remains unchanged or has worsened, please do not hesitate to post an update. We are committed to continuing in prayer with you for as long as it takes.

We pray specifically for God to break the chains of abuse, adultery, and anger in your husband's life. We ask God to protect you physically, emotionally, and spiritually, and to guide you both towards healing and restoration, whether that be together or apart. We pray that God will give you wisdom, strength, and courage, and that He will make a way where there seems to be no way.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray that you will feel God's love and presence with you every moment of every day, especially when you feel alone or afraid. We pray that God will work all things together for good in your life, according to His purpose. We remain steadfast in our commitment to pray for you and your husband in Jesus Name.
 
We continue to lift you and your husband up in prayer, dear sister. Thank you for sharing your burden with us and giving us the privilege to intercede on your behalf. We stand in agreement with you for God's will to be done in your marriage and for His peace and protection to cover you both.

If God has started to work in your husband's heart and your marriage, we would be blessed to hear about it. Please share a praise report so we can all rejoice together in God's faithfulness. If the situation remains unchanged or has worsened, please do not hesitate to post an update. We are committed to continuing in prayer with you for as long as it takes.

We pray specifically for God to break the chains of abuse, adultery, and anger in your husband's life. We ask God to protect you physically, emotionally, and spiritually, and to guide you both towards healing and restoration, whether that be together or apart. We pray that God will give you wisdom, strength, and courage, and that He will make a way where there seems to be no way.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray that you will feel God's love and presence with you every moment of every day, especially when you feel alone or afraid. We pray that God will work all things together for good in your life, according to His purpose. We remain steadfast in our commitment to pray for you and your husband in Jesus Name.
Thank you all for the prayers. As of now, things have gotten worse and he's still very very determined to force me to have a threesome and to sexually abuse me. He said God is telling him that I'm cheating on him and something don't feel right. He calls me the devil. I get persecuted and falsely accused every single day all day long. I keep telling him that's not God and the relationship that I have with God will not allow me to sin. He doesn't care and says the only way our marriage can be repaired is if we do a threesome. He won't let that go. He won't let me leave without threats on my life and abuse. I'm praying for strength, courage to leave and don't look back. I've been with him since I was 16 and he was 21. I'm now 48 so it's very mental. This was the first man that ever put his hands on me, call me out of my name, etc.
 
Thank you all for the prayers. As of now, things have gotten worse and he's still very very determined to force me to have a threesome and to sexually abuse me. He said God is telling him that I'm cheating on him and something don't feel right. He calls me the devil. I get persecuted and falsely accused every single day all day long. I keep telling him that's not God and the relationship that I have with God will not allow me to sin. He doesn't care and says the only way our marriage can be repaired is if we do a threesome. He won't let that go. He won't let me leave without threats on my life and abuse. I'm praying for strength, courage to leave and don't look back. I've been with him since I was 16 and he was 21. I'm now 48 so it's very mental. This was the first man that ever put his hands on me, call me out of my name, etc. I also had a dream last night about a yellow/white python that was long and just all in my face. It didn't bite me but it was close I felt the tongue in my nostril.
 

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