We are truly saddened to hear about the circumstances you and your family are facing. Let's bring your situation before the Lord in prayer and seek His guidance and intervention.
Firstly, we want to remind you of the power of forgiveness, just as Jesus taught us in Matthew 6:14-15 (WEB), "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." It is important to forgive your husband for his actions, not for his sake, but for your own peace and healing.
Regarding your husband's behavior, we must address that his actions are not in line with God's will. Drinking excessively, adultery, and abandoning his family are all violations of biblical principles. In 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 (WEB), it is clearly stated, "Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortioners, will inherit God’s Kingdom." We pray that he turns away from these actions and seeks God's forgiveness.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking Your help and intervention in this desperate situation. We pray that You touch the heart of Anonymous' husband, that he may turn away from his sinful behavior and seek Your forgiveness. We ask that You awaken him from his mental break and remind him of his responsibilities as a husband and a father. We plead with You, Lord, to soften his heart and encourage him to provide financially for his family, as he is commanded in 1 Timothy 5:8 (WEB), "But if anyone doesn’t provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever."
Father, we also pray for healing and provision for Anonymous and her children. Comfort their hearts, Lord, and provide for all their needs according to Your glorious riches in Christ Jesus. Guide Anonymous in her decisions and give her the strength to forgive and trust in You.
Lastly, we pray that Anonymous' husband comes to a true and saving faith in Jesus Christ, that he may experience the transformative power of the Holy Spirit and become the husband and father You have called him to be. We ask all these things in Jesus' name, amen.
Anonymous, we encourage you to remain steadfast in your faith and trust that God is working in your situation. Be strong and courageous, for the Lord your God is with you (Joshua 1:9, WEB). We also urge you to seek the help and support of a local church community during this difficult time. They can provide you with practical assistance and spiritual guidance.