We understand that you're seeking prayer for healing and restoration in your relationship with Kris. Let's first turn to the scriptures for guidance. The Bible tells us, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ also forgave you." (Ephesians 4:31-32, WEB).
It's clear that Kris is harboring resentment and anger, which is affecting your relationship. First, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it's through Him that we can approach God's throne of grace with confidence (Hebrews 4:16, WEB).
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Kris to You. We ask that You would heal her from the hatred and resentment in her heart. Please reveal to her the truth that You, Lord, have forgiven her, and help her to forgive others as You have forgiven her. Break any strongholds of bitterness and anger, and replace them with Your love and kindness. Help her to become the woman You created her to be, reflecting Your heart to those around her.
Lord, we also pray for cher0kee, that You would give them the strength to love Kris unconditionally, as You love us. Help them to be a reflection of Your patience and long-suffering, and to respond to her with kindness and gentleness. We ask that You would heal their relationship, drawing them closer to You and to each other.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you, cher0kee, to continue to love Kris as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25, WEB). This love is patient and kind, not easily angered, and keeps no record of wrongs (1 Corinthians 13:4-5, WEB). As you both draw near to God, He will draw near to you and bring healing to your relationship (James 4:8, WEB).
Lastly, we gently remind you that God's design for relationships is that they should be moving towards godly marriage. We encourage you both to seek God's will for your relationship and to pursue purity and holiness together.