We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your relationship and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that your actions and words have caused harm, and this is a serious matter. The Bible tells us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." (1 John 1:9 WEB).
However, it's also important to address the underlying issue here. The Bible warns us, "Be angry, and don't sin. Don't let the sun go down on your wrath." (Ephesians 4:26 WEB). Unrighteous anger can lead us to say and do things that can cause significant harm. We must learn to manage our anger and respond in a way that honors God.
Regarding your relationship, we must also address the biblical principles of relationships. The goal of any courtship should be marriage, and it should be with another Christian believer. We also must avoid any sexual immorality outside of marriage.
Now, let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who finds herself in a difficult situation. Lord, we ask for your forgiveness for her actions and words that were spoken in anger. We pray for the young man who was hurt, that you would heal his heart and mind, and that you would give him a spirit of forgiveness. We ask that you would guide them both with your wisdom, and that your will be done in their relationship. If it is your will, Lord, we pray for restoration and reconciliation. Help them to walk in purity and holiness, seeking to honor you in all they do. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Moving forward, it's important to seek God's will for your life and your relationships. Trust in Him, and He will guide you. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).
Lastly, remember that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. "In him we have boldness and access in confidence through our faith in him." (Ephesians 3:12 WEB). Continue to trust in Him, and He will guide you through this.