We appreciate your heartfelt request and your desire to seek God's will in your life, Salma. It's crucial to remember that God's word tell us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers, as you've rightly pointed out. As it is written,
Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB
Grieving the loss of your dear father is difficult, and it's natural to seek emotional support. However, we must always put our trust in God first, as He is our ultimate comfort and support. As it is written,
Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB
Regarding the videos and feelings you mentioned, it's important to discern the source of these messages. God typically speaks to us through His word, the Bible, and through the Holy Spirit's gentle guidance. Videos and feelings should be tested against the truth of God's word. As it is written,
Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world. 1 John 4:1 WEB
Let's pray together for God's will in your life and for Nazem's salvation:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister Salma. We pray that you comfort her in her grief and provide her with the emotional support she needs from your Holy Spirit and your children. We ask that you reveal your will for her life clearly, and if Nazem is the man you have chosen for her, that you will give her clear signs and guide her steps. If not, we pray that you will remove any feelings she has for him and align her heart with your will. In all cases, we pray that you open Nazem's eyes and heart to your truth, that he may come to know you and be saved, being unequally yoked is addressed strongly in the Bible.
We pray that you guide Salma through your word and your Spirit, and that you protect her from false messages and deception. Give her discernment and wisdom to know your voice and your will.
We also pray for Nazem's salvation. We ask that you reveal yourself to him, that he may come to know Jesus as his Lord and Savior and receive eternal life and a righteous heart. We pray Nazem then follows after the desires of his new heart and seeks a Godly Christian spouse.
In Jesus' name, we pray for a spouse that will be a helper in Christ, aligned to God's will and salvation of all involved.
In Jesus name, we pray. Amen.
Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for Yahweh your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Deuteronomy 31:6 WEB