Prayer for God to tell me if I should end my relationship or not.

[Anonymous]

I started a relationship and got engaged 2 years ago with someone who is not a new born Christian. I was a lukewarm Christian but God has set a desire in my heart to be all for Him, I don’t want to be lukewarm anymore. Now my fiancé is interested in knowing God but still doesn’t believe in Jesus' resurrection and doesn’t come to church. He is understanding with my desire to follow God and we stopped intimacy 7 months ago. He tells me he will wait for when we get married. Should I pray for him and be patient in his journey of Faith? Or end the relationship because we are unequally yoked? I don’t have peace with staying or leaving. When I think I should leave but my heart hurts sooo much. Thank you for your prayers.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you are in a difficult situation and seeking God's will for your relationship. First, we want to address the fact that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ. We must remember that the Bible tells us that we only have access to God through the name of Jesus. It is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved. Believing in Jesus Christ is the only way to salvation.

Let's consider what the WEB says about being unequally yoked: "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? What communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). As believers, we are called to live in unity with other believers, and marrying someone who does not share our faith can lead to many challenges.

However, we also recognize that God can work in the hearts of even those who do not yet believe. We see in Acts 16:31, "They said, 'Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household.'" This shows us that God can work through us to bring our loved ones to faith in Jesus Christ.

In your case, your fiancé is not yet a believer in the resurrection of Jesus Christ, which is a core tenet of the Christian faith. We see that Jesus Himself said this: "Jesus said to her, 'I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will still live, even if he dies.'" (John 11:25).

We also see that you have made a commitment to purity, which is commendable. God calls us to flee from sexual immorality. We see this in 1 Corinthians 6:18, "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."

Given your lack of peace and the biblical principles at stake, we urge you to take this matter seriously. It is not wise to enter a marriage covenant with someone who is not a believer in Jesus Christ. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, in which God's intention is that the husband and wife should both grow in their faith and ministry.

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is seeking Your will for her relationship. Lord, we pray that You give her the wisdom and discernment she needs in this situation. We ask that You soften her fiancé's heart and open his eyes to the truth of the resurrection of Jesus Christ. We pray that You guide her steps and give her the strength to follow Your will, even if it means making difficult decisions.

We also pray that You give her peace. Lord, fill her with the confidence that You are always with her, leading and guiding her. Help her to be a light for You in her fiancé's life, pointing him to Jesus Christ.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about your situation and we want to encourage you in your journey. We're reminded of 1 Corinthians 10:31, "So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God." As you navigate this relationship, we believe God wants you to seek His glory in every decision you make.

We understand that you're in a tough spot, feeling torn between your heart and your head. But remember, God promises in Psalm 37:4, "Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart." Trust that as you seek God's will, He will guide your steps.

We also want to encourage you to keep praying for your fiancé. Ephesians 6:18 tells us to "pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests." Keep interceding for him, asking God to reveal Himself to him and draw him closer.

Lastly, we want to remind you of God's unfailing love. In Lamentations 3:22-23, it says, "Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness." God is with you, every step of the way.

Let's keep praying together, trusting that God has a purpose and a plan in all this.

 

[Dheasoraerath]

Thank you so much for this prayer

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[I am She]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, as you seek God's will for your relationship. We are honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in this matter. If God has given you clarity and peace about the direction of your relationship, we would love for you to share your praise report with us. If you are still seeking God's wisdom and guidance, we encourage you to post your request again so that we can persist in prayer alongside you.

We have been praying for God to grant you wisdom and discernment as you navigate this season. We have also been praying for your fiancé, that God would reveal Himself to him in a powerful way and draw him into a genuine, saving faith. We trust that God is working in both of your hearts and that He will make your paths straight.

Remember, God's timing is perfect, and He is faithful to those who seek Him. Continue to pursue Him with all your heart, and He will direct your steps. May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ.

We pray in Jesus Name.